weird ethical question
10 years ago
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Thoughts of the Rada! So... In the past I've made people artwork for free just because I wanted friends. Some of these people stuck around, some of them have gone. Some, however, have turned around and hurt me one way or another. I've been debating whether or not to take this work down. On one hand, people have favorited them, and sometimes still do. On the other hand, I feel like there's some bad memories there. So I guess my question is, is it okay for me to be butthurt and take them down, or should I suck it up and leave it there for people to enjoy, including those I may be upset with?
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Plus, even though the pictures are associated with bad memories now, they were once a point of happiness. Rather than the bad memories, you can use them as a memory milestone of a happier time in your life.
You're welcome to be butthurt over the event. Nothing wrong with being upset. But don't let the actions of others take away from the creation of the art itself. ^_^
Maybe some day, after the pain of the event has passed, you can look back on the pictures more fondly. Until then, let the art and the memories rest comfortably in their place, pushed back to older pages by new art and new memories! :D
Though its not my gallery so I cant say.
At least half of the time I see gallery nukes, people give the reasoning that they don't like looking at their old work. They hate it. They hate seeing what they used to do compared what they do now. Some kinda drivel.
Nearly the other half they give the reason you're giving. A lot of their art has bad memories attached to them, so they nuked their gallery for a fresh start.
Personally, I'm not a fan of gallery nukes, but I can totally understand getting away from bad memories. There shouldn't be anything wrong with wanting a clear mind and wanting to be happy.
Well, at the end of the day it is indeed your gallery. I say if it does give your bad memories that you'd rather not remember, go ahead and wipe them out. Although maybe give a heads up if a lot of other people like it.
Even though those 'friends' are gone, you still have artwork, and this artwork represents you and your art abilities, and neutral people and/or your watchers will enjoy the artworks too.