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Sigh. Sorry to post this.
10 years ago
Once upon a time...
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I'm...not doing so hot. I do my best to hide this, but I'm getting desperate, so here's my story.
A long time ago, when I was 17. I was pressured into going to college. This was the first issue, as I didn't have a goal in mind and was signing off on loans I just didn't want. I did it "so I could have an education" but I knew the main reason was so we could use the loan money to help the house. I didn't want to go. I just...didn't.
Fast forward to the end of the year where I failed out of everything and accomplished nothing.
I've got myself a job and I've been telling myself "No, I don't want to get a credit card." I was throwing out offers every day. They made me sick just looking at them, to the point where I didn't want to look at them.
And then the pressure came. I couldn't help it. I'm going to be PERFECTLY honest right now and come out with it: My mother made me do this. Not for me. For her. It was always about her. She had me buy things I didn't want to buy. She had me getting things for my sister and swearing she'd pay for it.
And now I'm stuck with the debt and her refusal to pay for it.
Now look at me. I'm trying to start a life with my boyfriend, the love of my life, in a home that isn't going to throw us out at the end of the year. I make too much money for them to keep us after august, and all I want is to get rid of these bills. I want to pay them their money and start over. I just want a normal life.
I'm sorry for all of this rambling and complaining. I just feel I have no other options. So if you can...help.
https://funds.gofundme.com/dashboard/own3pg
I'm...not doing so hot. I do my best to hide this, but I'm getting desperate, so here's my story.
A long time ago, when I was 17. I was pressured into going to college. This was the first issue, as I didn't have a goal in mind and was signing off on loans I just didn't want. I did it "so I could have an education" but I knew the main reason was so we could use the loan money to help the house. I didn't want to go. I just...didn't.
Fast forward to the end of the year where I failed out of everything and accomplished nothing.
I've got myself a job and I've been telling myself "No, I don't want to get a credit card." I was throwing out offers every day. They made me sick just looking at them, to the point where I didn't want to look at them.
And then the pressure came. I couldn't help it. I'm going to be PERFECTLY honest right now and come out with it: My mother made me do this. Not for me. For her. It was always about her. She had me buy things I didn't want to buy. She had me getting things for my sister and swearing she'd pay for it.
And now I'm stuck with the debt and her refusal to pay for it.
Now look at me. I'm trying to start a life with my boyfriend, the love of my life, in a home that isn't going to throw us out at the end of the year. I make too much money for them to keep us after august, and all I want is to get rid of these bills. I want to pay them their money and start over. I just want a normal life.
I'm sorry for all of this rambling and complaining. I just feel I have no other options. So if you can...help.
https://funds.gofundme.com/dashboard/own3pg
Simply put a small amount away each week or month to pay the bills.
And next time listen to your gut instinct. Never use a credit card ever. One thing i have stuck to all my life.
But unfortuantly you did get yourself in this mess. Its a hard lesson to learn but what i suggest is work a way to get you mum to pay back what she owes, not the fandom.
Or you could try a bank loan but not sure if thats advisable.
Or try and condense all ur monthly payments into one.
Maybe even seek help from a financial advisor.