do people realize that everything that isnt a man fucking a woman in missionary is pretty much a fetish by definition?

I pretty much understand, though I'm not popular enough to be bothered by haters like that (and do fully understand the last bit about not having the money for surgery but wanting to someday)

I'm confused, would you be having the surgery to get a penis or a vagina? Or am I just totally off the mark here?

A vagina. I was born with a penis, and do not wish to have such.

Ah. I wish I had something like that to go for. Best of luck to you on that, at least.

I hope you can get your operation some day, tbh this hole time i thought you were a guy born with a vagina. But its ok that you werent but you want one, i have a close friend thats doing the hormone transfusions for the surgery to happen. And once he has hir new vagina they will still be my close friend. So if you need or just want a supportive friend please feel free to message me.

Hey who said minorities cant discriminate minorer minorities :p

Your very existence is a challenge to their limited beliefs and "facts" they have about life, things that they had in years and thus cannot be changed overnight even if Obama publicly acknowledged you(Because people wont care as much if it was a psychologist association). Instead the majority would turn against him if they were neutral or will try to make themselves believe that he did it for some other reason like pressure from others if they liked him. To change such ideas you need time a subtle manipulation and i am sorry to say that but i dont see that happening by someone in our lifetime(Unless we manage to find a way to live forever :D)

Now it is not surprising people would try to reject you and throw you out of their "group" by calling you a fetishist. They simply are close minded in a sense that they cant accept the million of possibilities out there and believe there has to be a set way of life/thinking/behaving etc, even minorities do that.

My advice is to really not bother with such people, few of them might be willing to listen and to understand but the majority wont change their minds. It is better to simply live and try to enjoy life without being phased by others, plus i am sure you have friends and a bf to support you, you definitely dont need "them".
And tbh regarding surgery, money will be the small problem. The big problem is to find someone who is known for quality and also doesnt need you to go through some silly transgender(as in mtf) process and take hormones for years...

The big question is, even if you were, would that necessarily be a bad thing? Everyone has their likes and dislikes, and their fetishes. If someone who is not trans just happens to get turned on by the idea of trans people in sexual situations, are they then forbidden from commissioning artwork depicting this? It's a very sad world indeed if people are being attacked for having their own individual tastes.

I have penis fetish :c
1 liek = 1 prayur

I understand where you're coming from. Still I don't get why some make such a big fuss about it.

I remember one time I thought it be wrong to fetish trans or other non-binary sex. It was all because of reading on a certain blog saying that it was offensive to do so. But until on FA I've read a journal made by a user who had an intersex charcter like yours (I forgot the name of the user... and I know he's on watchlist too) about how he gets rejected of having commissions done by other artists because of his character's sex because the artists were afraid of offending trans or others in sexual artwork. The person pointed out the unfairness in this argument due to many artworks made by the artists fetishing men and women in sexual situations with no reluctance in making them.

So that made me change my way of thinking to, "Why not make art of them?". Plus there's nothing wrong in doing so and having artwork of intersex, trans, herm. etc. Plus some would be more than happy to see artwork of them, and their own kind in porn pics.

It just goes to show that, just because a person thinks whatever potentially may be offensive to someone doesn't mean that they'll find it offensive. Some people may think it's helping to defend whomever, but it's actually hurting them. Of course, there will always be people who will become offended by these things, but if there's no uproar about it and/or if the person isn't offended by it... then why fuss over it?

All in all, don't stop posting art of Wicked. He's still one of the hawtest males on FA... well to me that is.

The whole "fetishing trans" concept really bugs me. Like if you truly believe they are just like other people and completely normal, then those "qualities" are perfectly legitimate things to be turned on by. I find a man with a vagina insanely hot just as a typical straight dude would find a woman with a vagina hot. I'm not particularly fond of penises but I want to date a man, so the whole "man with a pussy" thing is just kinda an ideal attraction to me. Being attracted to certain body types and attributes seems like a perfectly normal thing to me..

You're my favorite.

People on this website bitching about "Fetishsings things?
HOW IS THIS EVEN ... POSSIBLE!

It's kind of a tricky thing! I know a lot of folks who use their furry characters to scratch a particular gender itch, especially when transition isn't or can't be part of their lives- but it can look fetishizing or like it's playing into harmful tropes. And I understand why people might feel hurt too, but a lot of the backlash I think ends up hurting non-binary folks and trans folks who may express or reconcile things about their own body and identity through a certain type of character/porn/etc. Transition at this stage is really impossible for me and I don't know that it would even achieve the right things and I'm also not in a very good place to start presenting differently either. So... drawings it is. I try to tread carefully and be polite and hope I can talk things out in instances when people feel hurt. I ultimately don't want to make anyone feel hurt or sad or scared :/

God.... Finally I met a man with exactly the same problems as me!
Thank you for being there.