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10 years ago
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WARNING-- this rant will contain the theme of marriage and having kids and the over population of the world. If you are sensitive or are fond of these themes I highly suggest you NOT read, and move on.
Also, there may be some repeated statements from past rants because I forget what I have and have not mentioned before.
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I have been seeing everywhere people getting married. At the age of just 18, and just bullshit ages everywhere. I think marriage is just stupid all together. All it does is make shit complicated and give people the excuse of "How could you, we're married!!" ...stop it. Just don't.
"But marriage is a symbol of promise and forever and loyalty blah blah blah"
No. The relationship itself should be what symbolizes ALL things. You should not need a ring, you should not need a sheet of paper to tell you you're together. You should know that you're together plain and simple.
If you get married, all it does is make it bullshit for you to go through when you two break up. It makes a whole shit ton of paper work to do. Fuck that, okay. If you break up with someone after whatever long, you should be able to just say "Okay, bye. See ya later." and just fucking leave.
You shouldn't have to go through paper work or nothing else, just leave. Simple as that. You shouldn't need a stupid sheet of paper or a ceremony or a damn ring to be a symbol or to let others or even yourself know you're taken.
If someone wants to know, tell them. If someone starts to flirt and you want to let them know you're taken tell them. Or if you're with your partner just either tell them or show them.
You know you're together, that should be it. End of story. I honestly have no understanding for weddings anymore. Not since I sat down and thought about it. It's just.. really dumb. Marriage is honestly pointless, it's the relationship itself that should matter most. It should be smooth, effortless, fun, passionate, and the bond should be able to be seen by others, but felt by you two only. Strong as anything. No sheet of paper + ceremony to = "official" togetherness or whatever else bullshit.
People lie, people cheat, people will do whatever bullshit to piss you off or break your heart whether it's by accident or on purpose. The point being-- whatever the cause of a break up may be, that sheet of paper will make it fucking HELL to split up instead of just being like "Okay, see ya later."
I keep seeing marriages of people 18 years old, and gushing sugar and lollipops and rainbows. No, stop it. In my opinion you are fucking your life right up the ass with the most massive block of shit wrapped in barbed wire. Stop it. Really. It's a pretty huge terrible error. You're 18!!! Live it up with your partner or hell, if you're single, fucking live it up!! Live life to it's fullest, and just-- be young! Be happy! Be FREE. Don't get married..
Even when you're older, don't do it. Even if you feel like they're the ONLY one you could ever breathe for, just don't. Be happy just being with them.
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As for having kids... there are people as young as 12 years old having kids.
Stop that. This world is wayyyyy over populated. In fact I believe that's a fucking understatement. Lately pregnancy and births have been exploding EVERYWHERE... for different reasons. But with the SAME. HORRID. RESULT.
Over population, distress, and more depression.
May I just ask....those who see how the ones already alive suffer... why bring more into this horrid world?
Why would you sentence these "poor innocent" souls to depression and stress as soon as they have the means to socialize?
Why would you contribute to the overpopulation and darkness of this world?
You see suicides world wide... You see the depression. The pain. The suffering. The "horrid" people that live. The abandoned, and the orphans. The tears of a broken heart and the ice cold silence of a shattered soul. The way humans rip one another apart without mercy mentally.. emotionally. As they watch them die until they end their suffering by their own hand.
If these children are so innocent...tell me, why would you bring them here? For a chance to live? A chance for what may I ask?
To suffer from depression and either become a bully or the bullied? To be crushed by his fellow man?
We are all born to die, this may be true. But the fact is... life has one true, evolutionary purpose. To fuck, and repopulate. Our evolutionary purpose is not to find love. It is not to find adventure. It is to repopulate.
and the humans have abused this beyond repair. The world is far beyond "Repopulation" and is has passed up "OVER population"
so what else is there to do? Everyone asks at some point in their life... "What is my purpose? Where do I belong?"
The truth is, we are born without an emotional purpose. This is why we wonder what it is, due to the fact we are stuck with emotion which triggers our need to be close. To be socially accepted. To find love. To be happy, and have fun. But this is not our purpose. We have abused our assigned purpose and are now just passing the time until the world destroys what it has created.. Man kind.
Life is short, I tell you. So on a more POSITIVE note-- be happy!! Savor every breath, and if you want children?? ADOPT some. Simple as that. You will TRULY be giving a life a REAL chance. One that is already here on this earth. There are plenty that need it. That need someone who will be there for them like no one else ever was.
As for simply living? Do it. Live to your best. If you don't think you're ready for something, don't do it. Wait for your time to come where you believe you're ready. Have fun. Live for no one but yourself.
Also, there may be some repeated statements from past rants because I forget what I have and have not mentioned before.
___________________
I have been seeing everywhere people getting married. At the age of just 18, and just bullshit ages everywhere. I think marriage is just stupid all together. All it does is make shit complicated and give people the excuse of "How could you, we're married!!" ...stop it. Just don't.
"But marriage is a symbol of promise and forever and loyalty blah blah blah"
No. The relationship itself should be what symbolizes ALL things. You should not need a ring, you should not need a sheet of paper to tell you you're together. You should know that you're together plain and simple.
If you get married, all it does is make it bullshit for you to go through when you two break up. It makes a whole shit ton of paper work to do. Fuck that, okay. If you break up with someone after whatever long, you should be able to just say "Okay, bye. See ya later." and just fucking leave.
You shouldn't have to go through paper work or nothing else, just leave. Simple as that. You shouldn't need a stupid sheet of paper or a ceremony or a damn ring to be a symbol or to let others or even yourself know you're taken.
If someone wants to know, tell them. If someone starts to flirt and you want to let them know you're taken tell them. Or if you're with your partner just either tell them or show them.
You know you're together, that should be it. End of story. I honestly have no understanding for weddings anymore. Not since I sat down and thought about it. It's just.. really dumb. Marriage is honestly pointless, it's the relationship itself that should matter most. It should be smooth, effortless, fun, passionate, and the bond should be able to be seen by others, but felt by you two only. Strong as anything. No sheet of paper + ceremony to = "official" togetherness or whatever else bullshit.
People lie, people cheat, people will do whatever bullshit to piss you off or break your heart whether it's by accident or on purpose. The point being-- whatever the cause of a break up may be, that sheet of paper will make it fucking HELL to split up instead of just being like "Okay, see ya later."
I keep seeing marriages of people 18 years old, and gushing sugar and lollipops and rainbows. No, stop it. In my opinion you are fucking your life right up the ass with the most massive block of shit wrapped in barbed wire. Stop it. Really. It's a pretty huge terrible error. You're 18!!! Live it up with your partner or hell, if you're single, fucking live it up!! Live life to it's fullest, and just-- be young! Be happy! Be FREE. Don't get married..
Even when you're older, don't do it. Even if you feel like they're the ONLY one you could ever breathe for, just don't. Be happy just being with them.
--
As for having kids... there are people as young as 12 years old having kids.
Stop that. This world is wayyyyy over populated. In fact I believe that's a fucking understatement. Lately pregnancy and births have been exploding EVERYWHERE... for different reasons. But with the SAME. HORRID. RESULT.
Over population, distress, and more depression.
May I just ask....those who see how the ones already alive suffer... why bring more into this horrid world?
Why would you sentence these "poor innocent" souls to depression and stress as soon as they have the means to socialize?
Why would you contribute to the overpopulation and darkness of this world?
You see suicides world wide... You see the depression. The pain. The suffering. The "horrid" people that live. The abandoned, and the orphans. The tears of a broken heart and the ice cold silence of a shattered soul. The way humans rip one another apart without mercy mentally.. emotionally. As they watch them die until they end their suffering by their own hand.
If these children are so innocent...tell me, why would you bring them here? For a chance to live? A chance for what may I ask?
To suffer from depression and either become a bully or the bullied? To be crushed by his fellow man?
We are all born to die, this may be true. But the fact is... life has one true, evolutionary purpose. To fuck, and repopulate. Our evolutionary purpose is not to find love. It is not to find adventure. It is to repopulate.
and the humans have abused this beyond repair. The world is far beyond "Repopulation" and is has passed up "OVER population"
so what else is there to do? Everyone asks at some point in their life... "What is my purpose? Where do I belong?"
The truth is, we are born without an emotional purpose. This is why we wonder what it is, due to the fact we are stuck with emotion which triggers our need to be close. To be socially accepted. To find love. To be happy, and have fun. But this is not our purpose. We have abused our assigned purpose and are now just passing the time until the world destroys what it has created.. Man kind.
Life is short, I tell you. So on a more POSITIVE note-- be happy!! Savor every breath, and if you want children?? ADOPT some. Simple as that. You will TRULY be giving a life a REAL chance. One that is already here on this earth. There are plenty that need it. That need someone who will be there for them like no one else ever was.
As for simply living? Do it. Live to your best. If you don't think you're ready for something, don't do it. Wait for your time to come where you believe you're ready. Have fun. Live for no one but yourself.
Someone in our year had a baby just over a year ago, came back to school for about a week or two then went off on maternity leave again! ._.
mm. Well, this just means she can't keep her legs shut, now doesn't it?
And yep. There seem to be a lot of teenage pregnancies these days, whether it's lack of education or just plain stupidness idk. Sorry, I've kinda strayed from your original point, but yeah xD