Some people never learn huh?
10 years ago
Name is redacted for privacy sake
Re: I'm sorry
from [REDACTED]
to James-Mayonnaise
The fact that YOU are calling me immature in this is funny. Ive asked you many times to leave me alone. I have no interest in talking to you AT ALL or being friends or anything. And the fact you still put it ON ME like im the bad guy means you haven't learned nothing. Grow up, and leave me alone and move on. I have. I moved on years ago when I blocked you. Time for you to do the same. This is the last time I will respond to you. Any further attempts to contact me will earn an immediate block. So do YOURSELF a favor and move on.
James-Mayonnaise said the following:
I know the way that I had acted in the past was wrong. All I'm just asking is for forgiveness and to perhaps patch up the past that has been broken. Maybe I wasn't clear with you on the day that you wanted me to help you create your characters but I had to help my family out. You really need to stop running away from your past. At least have the maturity to confront your problems [REDACTED]. You're still a friend to me and I just want to at least have that burden off of my chest knowing that you have moved on from the past and not have any grudges against me.
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Alright, so here's basically what happened:
She asked me to help her create two characters on Thursday (two years ago mind you). I told her, if I could and if I'm not busy because I was helping my family out move and fix up their new house on that weekend. She said alright, and it was kept there. On Thursday, I had to help my mom and my stepfather move into their new house, paint the house, and basically sort every little detail as possible until it was all completed on around Friday in the evening.
When I got back home Friday, I was only able to get on my computer to just tell my friends I was back home and that I was going to be switching over to my tablet. SHE had her mood change from a cheery mode to that of a bitch when I told her that I was changing over to my tablet. From there, she tried to claim that I promised her that I was going to help her create her two characters on that day. I told her that I had made no such promise and that I was basically without sleep since I was the only one (aside from my stepfather) doing the moving and painting the entire house (two-story, both inside and outside) and she said that I had to help her, as if she was the main priority that I had to look at before anyone else in my life, including my own family. With that, she logged out and out of my anger I deleted her from basically everywhere except for my skype.
Here's what I got from my f-list:
"I thought you said you said "you'd never leave" and you'd "always be here" for me. But I guess those were more lies told to me by boys who just wanted something from me. Thank you for teaching me, once again that trust people never works out for the better. But im sure you're going to say that it was all my fault for being a bitch. But if I can't trust you to be there when you say you were, then idk. But seeming as you felt you had to remove me, I guess I didn't mean much to you anyways then a RP kink. Thanks for leading me on, I'm glad I didn't fall to far into your lie of caring for me. Don't bother replying, cuz I've already blocked you everywhere, even on my phone. Removing/blocking me is pretty much unforgivable. Have a nice life."
Which basically made me believe that she was trying to give me a guilt trip just so I would feel bad about it and tried to claim that I sent someone to harass her. The only "harassing" that I did was the simple fact that I'm the type of guy who seeks to have closure over "open wounds" and the fact that she doesn't give a shit about anyone else except for her and her "boyfriend" which she never told me about until the day of the incident where it ended, even though I basically told her everything about my personal life and even skyped with her several times (mainly which she complained about her issues and I comforted her how all friends should be).
And the matter is that she basically said that she feels fake hanging out with me which really makes her a fake because why be friends with me if you're going to make that statement? Really? I'm just really dumbfounded on how I didn't catch on with the true bitch that she is, especially finding this in one of her journals:
"Oh and everyone else reading this who have been ignoring me cries for help. FUCK YOU!" Because yeah, friends tell friends "fuck you"
Oh and thanks to the guy who posted this in her two journals:
"You dont make a random ass Jounral to tell em all off at once.
You want friends right?
take a little advice...keep your temper in check...and two? its all on a computer....You want a RL friend? go out to the mall or etc.
Emotional Punching bag" as you put it?
Hypocrite? :P "
If anything, I'm not revealing her identity because I'm not that much of an asshole to reveal other people their true shame. All I can say is that karma will ruin her. She's never been truly kind during the days that I was friends with her and I felt bad for her whenever something happened to her because I never wished for anything bad to happen to them but once she revealed her true colours, then that's where I cross the line.
Peace. I know that its long but some people will never learn when to let go of their grudge.
Re: I'm sorry
from [REDACTED]
to James-Mayonnaise
The fact that YOU are calling me immature in this is funny. Ive asked you many times to leave me alone. I have no interest in talking to you AT ALL or being friends or anything. And the fact you still put it ON ME like im the bad guy means you haven't learned nothing. Grow up, and leave me alone and move on. I have. I moved on years ago when I blocked you. Time for you to do the same. This is the last time I will respond to you. Any further attempts to contact me will earn an immediate block. So do YOURSELF a favor and move on.
James-Mayonnaise said the following:
I know the way that I had acted in the past was wrong. All I'm just asking is for forgiveness and to perhaps patch up the past that has been broken. Maybe I wasn't clear with you on the day that you wanted me to help you create your characters but I had to help my family out. You really need to stop running away from your past. At least have the maturity to confront your problems [REDACTED]. You're still a friend to me and I just want to at least have that burden off of my chest knowing that you have moved on from the past and not have any grudges against me.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Alright, so here's basically what happened:
She asked me to help her create two characters on Thursday (two years ago mind you). I told her, if I could and if I'm not busy because I was helping my family out move and fix up their new house on that weekend. She said alright, and it was kept there. On Thursday, I had to help my mom and my stepfather move into their new house, paint the house, and basically sort every little detail as possible until it was all completed on around Friday in the evening.
When I got back home Friday, I was only able to get on my computer to just tell my friends I was back home and that I was going to be switching over to my tablet. SHE had her mood change from a cheery mode to that of a bitch when I told her that I was changing over to my tablet. From there, she tried to claim that I promised her that I was going to help her create her two characters on that day. I told her that I had made no such promise and that I was basically without sleep since I was the only one (aside from my stepfather) doing the moving and painting the entire house (two-story, both inside and outside) and she said that I had to help her, as if she was the main priority that I had to look at before anyone else in my life, including my own family. With that, she logged out and out of my anger I deleted her from basically everywhere except for my skype.
Here's what I got from my f-list:
"I thought you said you said "you'd never leave" and you'd "always be here" for me. But I guess those were more lies told to me by boys who just wanted something from me. Thank you for teaching me, once again that trust people never works out for the better. But im sure you're going to say that it was all my fault for being a bitch. But if I can't trust you to be there when you say you were, then idk. But seeming as you felt you had to remove me, I guess I didn't mean much to you anyways then a RP kink. Thanks for leading me on, I'm glad I didn't fall to far into your lie of caring for me. Don't bother replying, cuz I've already blocked you everywhere, even on my phone. Removing/blocking me is pretty much unforgivable. Have a nice life."
Which basically made me believe that she was trying to give me a guilt trip just so I would feel bad about it and tried to claim that I sent someone to harass her. The only "harassing" that I did was the simple fact that I'm the type of guy who seeks to have closure over "open wounds" and the fact that she doesn't give a shit about anyone else except for her and her "boyfriend" which she never told me about until the day of the incident where it ended, even though I basically told her everything about my personal life and even skyped with her several times (mainly which she complained about her issues and I comforted her how all friends should be).
And the matter is that she basically said that she feels fake hanging out with me which really makes her a fake because why be friends with me if you're going to make that statement? Really? I'm just really dumbfounded on how I didn't catch on with the true bitch that she is, especially finding this in one of her journals:
"Oh and everyone else reading this who have been ignoring me cries for help. FUCK YOU!" Because yeah, friends tell friends "fuck you"
Oh and thanks to the guy who posted this in her two journals:
"You dont make a random ass Jounral to tell em all off at once.
You want friends right?
take a little advice...keep your temper in check...and two? its all on a computer....You want a RL friend? go out to the mall or etc.
Emotional Punching bag" as you put it?
Hypocrite? :P "
If anything, I'm not revealing her identity because I'm not that much of an asshole to reveal other people their true shame. All I can say is that karma will ruin her. She's never been truly kind during the days that I was friends with her and I felt bad for her whenever something happened to her because I never wished for anything bad to happen to them but once she revealed her true colours, then that's where I cross the line.
Peace. I know that its long but some people will never learn when to let go of their grudge.
FatGao713
~fatgao713
O.O How come I didn't know this about you hun? *hugs tightly* You going to be okay?
Midigami
~midigami
OP
Because I didn't want this debacle to cloud on over us hun *hugs back* I just felt like I needed to let this out of my chest
FatGao713
~fatgao713
Well you handled this in a very mature manner. I'm proud of you. *kisses* But next time, tell me if something is bothering you. We got to get used to sharing things about each other and doing things together, so that when we are married, we can handle stuff together.
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