casually moves that journal down even though I still feel like shit

Original by  plaguebug but I got it from  felisrandomis , with slight edits for my own perspective.

Open relationships come in many shapes and sizes.
Open relationships present under many labels.

I'm panromantic and (gray)asexual, but am polyamorous.
This means, in a form, my relationship has the potential to be open.

What this doesn't mean:

- That I want to/will fuck anyone/everyone/you. I'm actually pretty picky.

- That I'm sexually unsatisfied in my current relationship. You obviously haven't met the Cyborg.

- That I will have murrypurry roleplay with you. I'm very picky as well on my RP partners, nor do I see it as anything farther then text on a page.

- That I'm easy. See my first point.

- That I'm unfaithful. I won't do anything without my datemates' approval.

- That my relationship will fail. Don't assume that because an open relationship failed for you/your friend/that person on that episode of that show you like doesn't mean it will for me.

- That I fuck ALL the time. See again, asexual. I am aware that some aces can and do have and enjoy sex; I am one of them. However, it is very unlikely I will have sex with someone outside of my current relationships.

- That I care about your opinion. Nope!

- That my family's needs come second. I put my family before all else. Everything outside my relationship with my datemates and the care of my pets, everything else is secondary at best. I won't drop my responsibilities to fuck you.

- That I JUST want to bone. I'm not sexually attracted to most people. I'm more interested in emotional/mental connections than sexual ones.


Don't make assumptions about me (or anyone) based on how YOU think relationships work.

Please don't send me "let's fuck/date" notes out of the blue either. They will be deleted, and you will be blocked.