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omg just a journal about drama
10 years ago
not that I am in any way experiencing drama atm, or really even know of any drama going on (but it's FA, I am 100% sure there is drama going on somewhere)
But I was idly chatting about the topic with a friend, and how destructive and harmful it is, and how long the scars can last, you know?
And I guess I just wanted to throw it out there, that what--six months later? The resolution I made ages ago about starting over and putting things behind me?
I AM STILL ON THAT PATH OKAY
Big ol' eff you to any drama; don't want it to involve me, don't even want it to look at me
I literally do not care what people do, or say, or what have you at this point -- so long as it's not about me, I do. not. care. anymore.
And like, there have been a couple instances where ppl thought I had talked badly about them behind their backs to others, aND THE KICKER IS I DIDN'T??? Because I don't talk about ppl anymore, because again--I literally do. not. care. That's just ASKING for trouble, which I want nothing of, y'know? So I can promise if you ever think I'm talking badly about you I'm really not.... I am really, really not.
Especially cuz I stg nothing good ever comes from involving yourself in others' problems.
Maybe this seems bad to some more actively opinionated people, that I just don't care anymore, but hey, I'm a true neutral. What do you expect??
Listen, I'm not perfect. I 've done a few shit things, just like anyone else.
And I slip up sometimes, but damn I am trying hard. And I always learn from my mistakes.
I've said it before, I'll say it again: it's too exhausting to have bad blood. It's too exhausting to dislike people. Maybe I can't be friends with everyone, but I certainly don't have to be enemies with anyone either. Olive branch for you, olive branch for you, olive branch for everyone! http://tinyurl.com/pvr6qwd
AND IDK THIS IS ALL REALLY A rather pointless journal cuz nothing is actually going on rn
but bitterness never seems to friggin go away, from anywhere
and damn it's exhausting. I want nothing to do with it.
I haven't had problems w/ ppl in a long time (on my side, at least), and damn it I'm gonna continue NOT having problems with ppl cuz having problems with people is stupid if it's avoidable in the first place, ya hear?
I just want to get along with as many people as possible, honestly. And I want to stay positive and happy and just
hAVE A GOOD TIME YKNOW
tHATS ALL I HONESTLY WANT /closes eyes
http://tinyurl.com/pgaprf8
ANYWAy.
I HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A LOVELY NIGHT (or day) AND ALL THAT.
I saw Jurassic World the other day (p dang good btw), marathoned the new Orange is the New Black season (also p dang good), and am currently rewatching Supernatural cuz why the heckers not (which is honestly a little mediocre but eh what can you do).
But I was idly chatting about the topic with a friend, and how destructive and harmful it is, and how long the scars can last, you know?
And I guess I just wanted to throw it out there, that what--six months later? The resolution I made ages ago about starting over and putting things behind me?
I AM STILL ON THAT PATH OKAY
Big ol' eff you to any drama; don't want it to involve me, don't even want it to look at me
I literally do not care what people do, or say, or what have you at this point -- so long as it's not about me, I do. not. care. anymore.
And like, there have been a couple instances where ppl thought I had talked badly about them behind their backs to others, aND THE KICKER IS I DIDN'T??? Because I don't talk about ppl anymore, because again--I literally do. not. care. That's just ASKING for trouble, which I want nothing of, y'know? So I can promise if you ever think I'm talking badly about you I'm really not.... I am really, really not.
Especially cuz I stg nothing good ever comes from involving yourself in others' problems.
Maybe this seems bad to some more actively opinionated people, that I just don't care anymore, but hey, I'm a true neutral. What do you expect??
Listen, I'm not perfect. I 've done a few shit things, just like anyone else.
And I slip up sometimes, but damn I am trying hard. And I always learn from my mistakes.
I've said it before, I'll say it again: it's too exhausting to have bad blood. It's too exhausting to dislike people. Maybe I can't be friends with everyone, but I certainly don't have to be enemies with anyone either. Olive branch for you, olive branch for you, olive branch for everyone! http://tinyurl.com/pvr6qwd
AND IDK THIS IS ALL REALLY A rather pointless journal cuz nothing is actually going on rn
but bitterness never seems to friggin go away, from anywhere
and damn it's exhausting. I want nothing to do with it.
I haven't had problems w/ ppl in a long time (on my side, at least), and damn it I'm gonna continue NOT having problems with ppl cuz having problems with people is stupid if it's avoidable in the first place, ya hear?
I just want to get along with as many people as possible, honestly. And I want to stay positive and happy and just
hAVE A GOOD TIME YKNOW
tHATS ALL I HONESTLY WANT /closes eyes
http://tinyurl.com/pgaprf8
ANYWAy.
I HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A LOVELY NIGHT (or day) AND ALL THAT.
I saw Jurassic World the other day (p dang good btw), marathoned the new Orange is the New Black season (also p dang good), and am currently rewatching Supernatural cuz why the heckers not (which is honestly a little mediocre but eh what can you do).
Idk where it is, not that I care or anything, I'm p much exactly like you on the matter.
But I'm sure it's SOMEWHERE on this website.
tbh I also avoided it pretty well for years, P MUCH UP until I made a twitter /laffs
You see a lot more on there, I guess. And oh boy there is a /lot/ of it. I've had a taste, and I want to back pedal the heck out so badly just noOOOPE never again /misses the innocent days of magically avoiding it
But I agree, personally speaking I prefer to remain as professional as I can. More than that, I just don't want to give ppl anything to use against me if I can help it. juST CUZ I don't like having trouble o<-<
Really????
You'd think their business would be fucked after something like that.
Jeez...
I don't even know what to say to that.
If you're popular enough, you can nearly get away with just about anything. An apology or two here, some sweeping there, and you're good to go.
The more you know...
jeez...
It's just a waste of energy, just like you said, to bother w/ any of it @____@
It not only tires me out, but if I get myself involved I turn so mean??? And I don't wanna be a mean person!
It's just not worth it 8(;;; /becomes switzerland
Most of my life is online, but it's definitely important to be able to step away and realize there is a life off the internet, and it's good to take breathers. The internet has this weird effect of just... snatching you into a tunnel vision somehow
And man, I spEAK English and sometimes I still don't understand the positions of others /laughs
But yeah, thank you! I'm sorry stuff happened too, for everyone and for all sides. Cheers for being positive!
We should be more positive and try to build nice environments for everybody instead of fighting about stuff that is not really important. People walk over people who don't even going to meet them, ever, and have no effect on their lives. Which is pretty absurd to me ^^;
That's what REALLY irks me like
Esp when your friends with both people in conflict >°<
I can relate to you so hard
LIke
I will 100% offer you emotional support and be there to listen and offer advice, but hell if I want someone to actually drag me into their problems ever again.
Cuz the moment you pick a side, it always bites you in the ass later. /Always/ -- maybe it's cowardly or heartless to not get involved--like you don't care, but life has only taught me that letting yourself get involved w/ things that aren't related to you only makes it worse.
Someone wants to vent and cry to me about problems they're having w/o worry that I'll go tell on them? TOTALLY THERE FOR THEM. But beyond that... /closes eyes
exactly! i moved to FA to escape petty drama on DA. it's like poison, and i dont feel the need to drink it up :I i agree with this WHOLE journal lol.
there is no point to involve yourself in unnecessary drama especially if it doesnt involve you :3
i am sorry to hear that people are putting words into your mouth like that. my only advice is to tell them to shove and you will them yourself if youve got something to say or not. cause no one wants unwanted or extra stress. daily life is hard enough we all dont need others shoveling more on cause cant even hold their own shinanegans.
I think a lot of artists are really antisocial and the drama you speak of goes to show how many friends you can draw to yourself. Apparently some of said friends are full of drama but it must mean you're so open and likeable. <3
It's about FUN!
/shot