HateMail? Really?
10 years ago
So Just to be polite, I wont name names, but I've recived on several sites now, multiple Private messages containing nothing but rude, negative and hateful comments or statements, Most of it is geared toward my pony art and To be honest I just don't want that shit flooding my inbox, Is there a way to deal with it better?
http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb.....gonna_hate.jpg
Also just block/mute them. Or forward them to a moderator and if they won't do anything, then block/mute them.
I'm such a terrible person?
Like that robot dog thing that self-corrects when you kick it.
Second is to realize they're not always attacking you, they're attacking something they don't like, which produces secondary targets. In this metaphor, they don't like MLP, so they attack MLP art or MLP fans. It's a twist on the "it's not you, it's me" logic.
The one that most artists are fond of is to become angry rather than sad. Get into the "I'll show them" mindset. Write a better story, make a better picture, use their negative energy to pump yourself up and prove them wrong.
One that artists specifically on FA use a lot is selective listening. Not everyone will enjoy your art, but you can't accommodate everyone. If you did, you'd be giving them generic art instead of doing something you're good at. Over time you'll learn to pass over the negativity and you won't even register it.
I've recently seen a lot of people getting hate mail for... really stupid things. One person was told their prices are ruining the fandom. You just have to... recognise that these are entitled assholes who think that everything is supposed to cater to them.... and laugh that they think the world revolves around them. It doesn't. You draw what you want for YOU. Unless it's a commission at which point you draw what you want for OTHERS when they PAY YOU ;)