People always try to think of sexuality as bins you can pick from gay, bi, pan, or straight. I feel that that is kinda dumb.
I came up with a different idea of thinking about sexuality. I feel that we should think of sexuality as a set of things you like, things you're neutral about, and things you don't like. For instance, there are gay guys that really like feminine curves, but, get this, do not like breasts... almost hate them, even. this is why I feel that it's not just the scale, but a matter of preference; things one likes and don't like. You know what I'm saying?