I'm a horrible person! Apparently. :|
10 years ago
The footer is the truth.
People misunderstand me all the time, then block me before I can figure out where I went wrong, so apparently that makes me a horrible person according to those that blocked me.
Well, to you guys and gals that decided it's easier to block me. Good on you, you blocked me before I could truly get to where I messed up and apologize. Now, it isn't my fault, but yours. Congrats. And yes, I'm being a jackass right now. I'm a little pissed off when I can't apologize for making a mistake. It's extremely easy for someone who doesn't know how emotions work all that well, and is barely able to feel them, and has other various issues that I'm not gonna bother saying, to make a mistake and say something in the wrong way or hurtful without meaning to be hurtful.
You have to be straight forward with me. Don't beat around the bush, don't post some vague ass response Them: "wow, that was hurtful"
Me: What was? *isblocked, messagefail!*
Me: Damn, I can't figure out what I did wrong now. Guess it's not my fault anymore.
If you block me before we resolve anything, I hereby proclaim it to be your fault you were offended by whatever was said. By blocking me before helping me understand what I said wrong, you hereby agree to these terms.
Well, to you guys and gals that decided it's easier to block me. Good on you, you blocked me before I could truly get to where I messed up and apologize. Now, it isn't my fault, but yours. Congrats. And yes, I'm being a jackass right now. I'm a little pissed off when I can't apologize for making a mistake. It's extremely easy for someone who doesn't know how emotions work all that well, and is barely able to feel them, and has other various issues that I'm not gonna bother saying, to make a mistake and say something in the wrong way or hurtful without meaning to be hurtful.
You have to be straight forward with me. Don't beat around the bush, don't post some vague ass response Them: "wow, that was hurtful"
Me: What was? *isblocked, messagefail!*
Me: Damn, I can't figure out what I did wrong now. Guess it's not my fault anymore.
If you block me before we resolve anything, I hereby proclaim it to be your fault you were offended by whatever was said. By blocking me before helping me understand what I said wrong, you hereby agree to these terms.
I agree with you, totally. If you made a mistake, it is your responsibility to do all you can to rectify it. But the moment the person removes the chance for you to fix it, it's now on them for not even listening.
I almost never block someone. However, I'm about to block this one guy trying to defend highly dangerous medications, telling me that no medication can cause permanent damage to your body/brain.
I did give both countless chances, and they wasted every single one.
I go to comment or whatever to somefur I haven't said anything to in a long-ass time, and find that they had blocked me without me knowing it.
So I must have said something that ticked them off and didn't try to resolve it with me and instead blocked me without saying why.
Even happened with somefur I had thought I was friends with...