Yea.. that's a really interesting video! And reassuring aswell =3

Very interesting indeed! Her accent! Gawd thats sexy

Interesting~

Though I don't know what I'm fearing if I'm 150% on the poop train.

I have concluded that this is likely the same concept that applies emotionally to s&M. It may also come from the desire to let go of feeling the need to be perfect and clean in all the things that we do. Even the concept of scent applies to s&M from the perspective that being marked (by whatever means) by someone is a sign of submission. And, one that can bring a sense of peace to the responsibility of our daily lives and the stresses that come with it. Its just a more extreme way to submit or to expose ourselves as unclean, imperfect, and to tell ourselves that it's okay not to be perfect.

Thanks for sharing! It may seem a bit vanilla in the way it is explained, but with a bit of thought and imagination, the concepts expressed in this video are very applicable to diapers/AB, scat, watersports, etc. Very enlightening.

On one hand, I always approach ideas like this with skepticism. Sexuality is so complicated, and I know even our best intuition can be wrong.

On a gut level, though? This rings sooooooo true to me. When I look at the staggering, tangled web of kinks in my head, all of them can be related to my (equally staggering, equally tangled) web of anxieties. This is something I’ve noticed for a long time. The fantasies I find most appealing (both to imagine and to live out) typically involve things that embarrass or intimidate me, yet in a context where no one will actually be hurt. With ABDL, for instance, I get to be irresponsible, childish, messy, and repellant… whereas in my daily life I work my butt off to be in prudent, mature, neat, and agreeable.

Anyway, I don’t know that this explains why we have the fetishes we do. (For instance, why are there people with the same anxieties of me who have totally different kinks? Or no kinks at all?) However, I think it’s an intriguing stab at explaining how our kinks work, which (to my mind) is perhaps even more important.

Great food for thought :)