I know what you mean. it's very fun to be one way online while having reality be different.

and i hate it... its just ugh...

Dominance isn't necessarily an appealing trait. If you're hunting for a female in real life, we generally like personality, and confidence without smug 'I'm the best' ego (that can be a huge turn off for some people).

My character/fursona is a huge girly girl. And I'm totally not. LOL. =|

thanks Kat.. its nice to actually have a female's opinion on something like this! :D
Ill remember that... its just most of the time they go "oh your character isnt fourteen feet tall with a six foot dick... oh darn.." usually i choose to avoid such folk... but it doesnt mean that it doesnt get to me.. ya get it?

You're talking about online interactions for the most part I'd assume?
I can't really imagine that the details of one's fursona would be of too much importance in physical world dating, though I might be wrong...

i dunno... part and part... my fursona leads to quite a few complications where people think im a much different person to the one i am irl x.x