Well tbh friendship is a two way street :/ you can be pissy all you want about people "supposedly" forgetting you but when you say you're not gonna be around people will just wait for your return instead of leaving messages to an empty account, no offense.

Like for me for instance I was delighted when you came back and stayed around for as long as you did, but I know that you have a job that takes you away for long periods of time, and I can wait till you come back to talk to you again, but then again I am just a patient person too.

It's not of me keeping them waiting its more of me reaching out and they either ignore me or some bs