Harassed by someone claiming to be my mate/husband
9 years ago
I want to give a heads up to everyone that in the last month or so, i was recently harassed by someone who is going around claiming to be my mate/husband. This person has randomly attacked a few of my close ones and friends by sending out pm's from fake accounts and through skype. Things have settled down a bit, but there's an offchance that this guy might try to start more issues and make more false claims. I've already warned my friends about this guy, but i want to make you people aware of this situation.
If you receive a pm or skype request from someone claiming to be my husband/mate, or anything related to relationships, it is NOT true. Any real-life mate or husband will ALWAYS be listed in my FA profile. If someone claims to be my mate/husband, but their icon isn't listed on my FA page, then they're fake and lying, and it's most likely the guy whos harassing me.
I can't disclose any names here because it would be against fa's rules, and for the sake of privacy for my friends/close ones. But for those of you reading this, keep an eye out for this guy, and let me know if you hear anything. And most importantly, be careful of who you trust.
If you receive a pm or skype request from someone claiming to be my husband/mate, or anything related to relationships, it is NOT true. Any real-life mate or husband will ALWAYS be listed in my FA profile. If someone claims to be my mate/husband, but their icon isn't listed on my FA page, then they're fake and lying, and it's most likely the guy whos harassing me.
I can't disclose any names here because it would be against fa's rules, and for the sake of privacy for my friends/close ones. But for those of you reading this, keep an eye out for this guy, and let me know if you hear anything. And most importantly, be careful of who you trust.
They either have possessiveness problems or are socially inept. I hope they get the mental help they need and leave you alone <__<
I wonder what would posess someone to do something like that.
Some cases, unless it were life threatening, they couldn't do much and if it involved parties in other countries, both parties law enforcement would have to get involved as well and determine who had proper jurisdiction or if they'd even deem it worthy of their time to put forth man hours to do.
Only thing that CAN be done is to report the user to FA or report them to their ISP service and provide proof of harassment as well as potential violation of services/rights to the ISP then the ISP can shut down their service for said person. I doubt FA would be this involved with protecting anyone as that is a LOT of work. Earlier example is also exhaustively expensive and could take years before settling. I've done the ISP report. It's a hassle but if it has to be done, then it has to be done.
But your icon is flawless
Thank you for your time
Kinda scary at the same time..
I hope that guy will stop being a creep. x_x
Take care~
Sorry you had to deal with that crap. Again I am wishing I had the power to reach into computer screens and slap the fuck out of morons like that.
im sure you know how troll's are. there just nobody's and there targets are always somebody's because they cant control there hate/jealousy/desperate cry's for attention/whatever there problem is. one weakness every troll has (as pathetic a weakness as it is) is simply ignoring them. ignoring/blocking them simply leaves them powerless,weak and helpless >:3
for whatever reason the first thing that came to mind was dingdong rampart
Yeah man, i've been coming across a lot of creepy people lately ><
This what happens when ya put your dick into crazyness xD But, i feel ya on that =\
Creepy!
In Poland, things are different, that's why I'm asking; is this real to stop him, and punish from the view of law?
Creating additional, fake account's sounds creepy, and he must be determinated.
From what you said, you've been ropleplaying with him, some time ago.
It's pretty suprising, that he's back now, which is even more creepy.
I don't know, what you were role-playing, but my very best guess is, that the creep found the role-play story, in the archives, and...kinda...."fell in love" with you, by reading it again.
And the fact, that you make amazing graphics, partially caused it too; having a mate, that is skilled in such, is a bless.
I hope your guess is right, and you have enough information about him gathered, to end this "madness" with the help of the officials.
Above, is my point of view, as the third person, and based on my experience.
I'm sorry, if what I said, hurt you, make uneasy, or it's simply a bad guess of mine.
I've noticed you've got a lot of support here, on FA; you will immediatly know, if he appears again, I suppose.
Plus, you have your friends informed, so there is nothing to worry about :'3
I keep my fingers crossed, for solving this situation for good
"He thinks rp automatically translates to being his mate/husband."
This is one of the reasons why I'm really avoidant about RPing with any furry ever unless I'm close friends with them.
Even SFW RPs. Some people get too obsessive and flirty, it's terrifying.
It doesn't help that I'm 18, which makes me even more of a target for certain types of creeps since I'm pretty young.
It sucks that you had to go through this. People are so gross.
Stay strong, man.