I guess I do what I do even though I would get judged for what I do...it just feels good.it's something new and different. Unexplored territory if you willl and not just sexual situations.

That is basically my exact feelings on all of it. After working in the adult industry for several years it became clear really fast that people like us are the unusual ones. That was one of the driving forces for my leaving that business.

I guess I just do it because it excites me in a way, whether or not there's a sexual component I think it's more about the fantasy. ;)

I can only say that a number of things are intriguing to me. I know I specifically mentioned enjoying some light bondage art. I find the thought of letting someone I trust bind me up and have their way with me to be an enticing thing to try one day. I know that being touched can be pleasing or disturbing based on comfort with the person, essentially trust they won't hurt you for pleasure, so I imagine bondage being a very high expression of trust. Though I certainly have no idea, it's just all thoughts in my head. I've never been close enough to someone, both emotionally and physically, to experience much of anything in a relationship. I don't even know if I could try it, because I know if I feel trapped, I freak out. So I guess if I ever did try it and it woks out, then that would mean I really do trust the person immensely.

understanding the basis behind most fetishes. There's biologically based fetishes, and situational/psychological based fetishes.

a lot of the unusual, transgressive fetishes, are fun because of how devious, and "wrong" they seem. The thrill involved.... particularly in the fringe and extreme fetishes... is that one feels that they have conquered something. There's a thrill to pushing limits and overcoming boundries.

I've had a long time asexual (Slave fox) friend since the 2000s, and we still talk and rp regularly,... he loves talking about situations and predicaments, setups, in the abstract. It's the situations he likes, rather than the actual doing. He gets off of talking of harsh bondage sentences and being given heavy regimen of tasks and impossible predicaments.
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Asexuals still DO get their kicks in some ways. They get the intensity in some other way. There's always some way, be it, music, or gaming... sporting, academics.... There's an equivalent amount of "kicks" in some form or another. I even watched.. another asexual who... nearly jizzed in his pants from listening to DragonForce.