The funeral was today, it was very very very very nice. The place where he's resting is just breath taking and GORGEOUS. Driving in you see all the flags on the graves, flowers everyplace. A HUGE pond with a mini water fall, and benches all around it to just sit. Like every few feet, there's a bench with a plaque of who donated it/in memory of, but for people to sit.

The service was very nice, they covered my grandfather's urn with a very respectful velvet bag that was sealed at the top. They did the taps and the flag being folded and presented, everyone spoke up and Richard, the man who accused me, my grandmother and Mom. In the hospital, while my grandfather was dying, of being murders, because we took him off the life support measures. Stood up in front of everyone and apologized, saying he realized that what Me, my mom and grandma did was one hundred percent for the best and that we all had been there through the whole thing, and that he was sorry.

It was nice to hear him apologize but I'm not ready to forgive him for calling me and my family murders.

But also it was my aunts Eldest child..needless to say I told her very politely and very calmly that I cannot have either of the girls over again, for anything. All she could do was keep apologizing to me..

Anyways..thats really it right now..other then I am definitely emotionally and mentally exhausted, and my patience is non existent.