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Lovely rant on some ABDL's and Babyfurs
9 years ago
So over the past few days I have been investigating places to find more ABDL communities. I came to this place using a service called Discord. The Server was ABDL reddit. That should of been my first red flag to not go into this place. Basically these guys are the worst of the worst in the ABDL community. They seem to live off in their own world thinking that ABDL types are all over and even exist in third world countries. While I could say yes their are people in the community that live all over. They are very spread out except for a few areas including here in NM. The other issue is that most ABDL's simply do not participate in any type of online community. Gee it's like they're afraid of people like these guys. Anywho that was just a part of the problem. After a few days of basically being treated like dirt, they decided that hey unless you pay 155 dollars for a case of ABU Space, you aren't a person worth being a friend.
First of lets get things straight. Most people that can relate to being an ABDL, Babyfur, whatever you want to call it usually live in the real world. We all have bills to pay and responsibilities to tend to. Most of us are lucky enough to even afford a case of padding every so often to begin with let alone something that costs 155 bucks. Second off, I can't believe I even have to say this to people who ARE ADULTS. But Buying the best of something does not equate to flipping friendship. Friends do get each other things every so often. But this is pretty much a cult. When you try to strong arm people into your point of view and buying what YOU think is the best, you do the rest of us a disservice. Treating people like scum and acting like the whole world works on your one tiny little view just goes to show how HORRIBLE you are! It also shows the rest of the world that yes indeed babyfurs and ABDL's are nothing worth others times. They are toxic HATEFUL and should be shunned. I know we all get into this pitfall but it is something we all must try and push against. If we want our community to grow and truly seem like a great place for everyone, we got to stop this.
There is zero reason to treat anyone like this! Especially at times when they're reaching out to try and be apart of the community and find others to enjoy it with. The worst part of all of this is that I have been in some pretty bad spaces lately. I'm fairly depressed because I honestly have no one to see in the community. Like I stated New Mexico is just a dead zone for a ton of things. On top of that, being post college just has made me feel like I have no where else to go in life. This has lead to some serious depression issues for myself and it is a fairly hard thing to fight at this time. I know there's more, I got to crunch the job hunting thing. I must keep determined to find people I can meet. I will find the one I can call my own. I just need to remain strong. But that is a challenge in itself right now.
To be short, remember that your actions do indeed reflect on all of us, try to actually help others in need, and don't force views on folks. Thanks for reading this and make sure to leave some feedback guys. It really does help out and I know there are others watching that feel like they're in the same boat right now.
*Gets of his soap box with a crinkle and snuggles up with his pink bunny plushie.*
First of lets get things straight. Most people that can relate to being an ABDL, Babyfur, whatever you want to call it usually live in the real world. We all have bills to pay and responsibilities to tend to. Most of us are lucky enough to even afford a case of padding every so often to begin with let alone something that costs 155 bucks. Second off, I can't believe I even have to say this to people who ARE ADULTS. But Buying the best of something does not equate to flipping friendship. Friends do get each other things every so often. But this is pretty much a cult. When you try to strong arm people into your point of view and buying what YOU think is the best, you do the rest of us a disservice. Treating people like scum and acting like the whole world works on your one tiny little view just goes to show how HORRIBLE you are! It also shows the rest of the world that yes indeed babyfurs and ABDL's are nothing worth others times. They are toxic HATEFUL and should be shunned. I know we all get into this pitfall but it is something we all must try and push against. If we want our community to grow and truly seem like a great place for everyone, we got to stop this.
There is zero reason to treat anyone like this! Especially at times when they're reaching out to try and be apart of the community and find others to enjoy it with. The worst part of all of this is that I have been in some pretty bad spaces lately. I'm fairly depressed because I honestly have no one to see in the community. Like I stated New Mexico is just a dead zone for a ton of things. On top of that, being post college just has made me feel like I have no where else to go in life. This has lead to some serious depression issues for myself and it is a fairly hard thing to fight at this time. I know there's more, I got to crunch the job hunting thing. I must keep determined to find people I can meet. I will find the one I can call my own. I just need to remain strong. But that is a challenge in itself right now.
To be short, remember that your actions do indeed reflect on all of us, try to actually help others in need, and don't force views on folks. Thanks for reading this and make sure to leave some feedback guys. It really does help out and I know there are others watching that feel like they're in the same boat right now.
*Gets of his soap box with a crinkle and snuggles up with his pink bunny plushie.*
goodnight @ everyone.
and then a pop up (at least for the desktop client) will pop up with that message. or it will have that red ! next to the server to show that there is an "announcement"