10 things I can't stand
9 years ago
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Not necessarily TRIGGERS (except if I mention it is) but stuff that definitely gets me a little mad.
10. People judging other people because of appearance, especially if it's a fictional character and the judger could do research first. I'm debating with myself whether or not to let loose the infostorm on some poor ignoramus on Youtube who crossed the line. (This IS a trigger.) As such, I will defend some folks MUCH more intensely than others, namely close friends and favorite characters.
9. Whenever I notice I'm overusing words or phrases. I often repeat things 3 times, use the words "man", "buddy", "dude" and "bro", swear far too much, end up saying way too much or stuff along that line. I've also been told I talk like someone out of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
8. Whenever I call someone the wrong gender identity. If I EVER do this, PLEASE correct me. It's a horrible habit of mine and I often dwell on it.
7. Someone saying they dislike something (especially food) to my face right after I mention it. It's just plain RUDE. (This IS a trigger.)
6. Family figuring out my secrets. NOBODY in my family knows anything about me, other than favorite foods and favorite animals. I'm a mystery wrapped in an enigma wrapped in a really bad fart joke.
5. My timidity and nerves getting the best of me. I have extreme paranoia and anxiety issues that I'm trying to get through, and even if I'm meeting someone just like me IRL (you get what I mean.), I get incredibly shaky and nervous. This actually has nothing to do with self-image- I have several disorders that affect me socially and tons of quirks a lot of folks would find intolerable.
4. WAITING. I HATE WAITING. I am currently waiting on: A piece of artwork, DLC for two games and two cons.
3. People treating nudity like a joke. There is a VERY noble character in a cartoon I like to watch who treats it as completely natural (he's cool like that! Also VERY smart, extremely brave, and very laid-back... SO COOOOOOOOOOOOL~) but his best friend on the show hates it and that's why I dislike her. I'D MAKE A BETTER FRIEND DAMMIT! I read TVTropes a LOT and I get SO worked up whenever jokes involving nudity are brought up, one time to the point where I outright screamed "ARE YOU KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW?!?!" (This is DEFINITELY a trigger.)
2. Racism, misogyny, bigotry and other stuff like that. It's hard to believe this world has hardly changed in regards to how some people think...
1. CRINGE MEDIA. I DESPISE EVERY ASPECT OF CRINGE MEDIA. The mere use of words like "cringey, cringeworthy, the absolute worst of" sets me off like a bomb strapped to a rampaging hellbeast. Cringe media is the very, VERY worst form of bullying I can imagine. From sites dedicated to fanfics they perceive as "bad", to the infamous bad fursuit site, to those godawful compilations on Youtube, this aspect of the internet is by far the most disrespectful and vile thing I have ever witnessed. (This is a MAJOR TRIGGER and the mere mention of it will set me off on a rant.)
Honorable mentions: Discussion of religion, discussion of politics, people who try to force their way of thinking down other people's throats, hatred of any species, lack of privacy.
10. People judging other people because of appearance, especially if it's a fictional character and the judger could do research first. I'm debating with myself whether or not to let loose the infostorm on some poor ignoramus on Youtube who crossed the line. (This IS a trigger.) As such, I will defend some folks MUCH more intensely than others, namely close friends and favorite characters.
9. Whenever I notice I'm overusing words or phrases. I often repeat things 3 times, use the words "man", "buddy", "dude" and "bro", swear far too much, end up saying way too much or stuff along that line. I've also been told I talk like someone out of Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
8. Whenever I call someone the wrong gender identity. If I EVER do this, PLEASE correct me. It's a horrible habit of mine and I often dwell on it.
7. Someone saying they dislike something (especially food) to my face right after I mention it. It's just plain RUDE. (This IS a trigger.)
6. Family figuring out my secrets. NOBODY in my family knows anything about me, other than favorite foods and favorite animals. I'm a mystery wrapped in an enigma wrapped in a really bad fart joke.
5. My timidity and nerves getting the best of me. I have extreme paranoia and anxiety issues that I'm trying to get through, and even if I'm meeting someone just like me IRL (you get what I mean.), I get incredibly shaky and nervous. This actually has nothing to do with self-image- I have several disorders that affect me socially and tons of quirks a lot of folks would find intolerable.
4. WAITING. I HATE WAITING. I am currently waiting on: A piece of artwork, DLC for two games and two cons.
3. People treating nudity like a joke. There is a VERY noble character in a cartoon I like to watch who treats it as completely natural (he's cool like that! Also VERY smart, extremely brave, and very laid-back... SO COOOOOOOOOOOOL~) but his best friend on the show hates it and that's why I dislike her. I'D MAKE A BETTER FRIEND DAMMIT! I read TVTropes a LOT and I get SO worked up whenever jokes involving nudity are brought up, one time to the point where I outright screamed "ARE YOU KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW?!?!" (This is DEFINITELY a trigger.)
2. Racism, misogyny, bigotry and other stuff like that. It's hard to believe this world has hardly changed in regards to how some people think...
1. CRINGE MEDIA. I DESPISE EVERY ASPECT OF CRINGE MEDIA. The mere use of words like "cringey, cringeworthy, the absolute worst of" sets me off like a bomb strapped to a rampaging hellbeast. Cringe media is the very, VERY worst form of bullying I can imagine. From sites dedicated to fanfics they perceive as "bad", to the infamous bad fursuit site, to those godawful compilations on Youtube, this aspect of the internet is by far the most disrespectful and vile thing I have ever witnessed. (This is a MAJOR TRIGGER and the mere mention of it will set me off on a rant.)
Honorable mentions: Discussion of religion, discussion of politics, people who try to force their way of thinking down other people's throats, hatred of any species, lack of privacy.
FA+

I know really good feminists that are about equality etc. but mostly I meet people thats extremes
Things'll probably settle down~!