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9 years ago
So....
I'm out of my relationship, and had to move again, which is why I haven't been online for the past few days. My last roomies neglected to tell me we were being evicted until just a few days before when our internet got shut off, so I ended up staying at my grandmother's for a few days and focusing myself on work because of emotional garbage.
It sucks, I paid their whole rent one month expecting they'd be able to pick up the next two months as promised, but ended up not paying at all... I honestly feel used. And so does my bank account. >:C
What's worse, I'm only getting half of what I should be paid back on the third. My ex keeps spending all the money he promises to give back to me, it's getting ridiculous.
I'm out of my relationship, and had to move again, which is why I haven't been online for the past few days. My last roomies neglected to tell me we were being evicted until just a few days before when our internet got shut off, so I ended up staying at my grandmother's for a few days and focusing myself on work because of emotional garbage.
It sucks, I paid their whole rent one month expecting they'd be able to pick up the next two months as promised, but ended up not paying at all... I honestly feel used. And so does my bank account. >:C
What's worse, I'm only getting half of what I should be paid back on the third. My ex keeps spending all the money he promises to give back to me, it's getting ridiculous.
As bad as it is you cant let this stuff hault progress with things since it would only serve to compound things so I definitely suggest splitting time rn between work (of course 1st priority), take even just and hour or two a night to work on a commission(s) and then another hour working on an adopt or something - I also suggest for anything like adopts since your queue is large right now, that you just sell the adopt as is with no add-ons which would give you more work to do when you already have enough that need your attention. This would help you get through your current queue and be bringing in a little bit of money for you while you do it. Definitely utilize making re-usable bases for adopts as well since that'll save you that much more time.
Just take all this stuff as a learning experience to grow for the future, I've gone through a lot of things like this myself and I just have to remind myself that I'll be going forward with better knowledge of how to navigate things in the future.