thats right, as you may or may not already know, i have a wonderful girl who isint states away. Long distance relationships were the cause of emotional harm to me, no matter how great the person was. having someone who i can hold in my arms, wake up next to, talk to face to face has already corrected my outlook and i cant believe that our bond is so strong. its like we cant get close enough. i used to think it was fucking annoying to see a couple hugged up on each other all day, but now i really see what it really is. thanks to you all who reminded me not to give up on finding the right person. and who ever told me that the right girl was gonna find ME..........you couldint have called it any better. thanks guys.