So I got called ma'am at work by a customer... i even made eye contact with here after that and so i could tell she was looking at my face... she finally realized her mistake when I spoke.
Yay for shaving... I just shaved off my goatee the other day, and my stubble is blonde/white.

I do realize though that from behind my hair does make me seem more... feminine... Its gotten long again and been multi colored for the last month or so. blue, purple, pink, green, white... did it for a festival.