*hugs* I sowwies...

Tis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.....Hang in there 'Tigress. Your time is coming. And when it does, the gawds and the universe wont be able to tear you apart.

Trust the wisdom of an ancient old otter.

*hugs*

You know how annoying that is to hear all the time....very, 'cause that is aaaall I get to hear "you just wait, your time will come, blablabla"... life just ain't fair to me...

Life isn't fair to anyone. It just seems that way. I know that trite platitudes can be rough some times, but what tools does an internet stranger have, to cheer someone up?

I know how u feel, that loneliness in your heart that feels like an empty hole. I long to hold the woman of my dreams. I'll never hurt her, I want to make her happy. I want to keep her warm at night and share my life my hopes and my dreams with her . . .

Yeah, hadn't the been a fricking atlantic between us I'd definitely give us a chance but yeah... all my loves have been long distance and well we see how that's gone, even though all the guys I've fallen for never made an effort to actually meet...just empty promises...

I don't care how far away someone is, if you care for them and they care for you truly. . I'd make it work. . Anything would be better then this aching loneliness in my heart . .

True, true. Still it is hard, I know that for a fact... especially since I'm too afraid to travel far at least alone.

I know it too, but for example hehe I would save up to come to you ;) I'd find a way for that special someone . . .

You really mean that?! That be really cool 'cause that's always been my worry that the guys just don't think it's worth the trip to come see me...

It'd always be worth coming to see someone that means the world to me ^^

That so nice to hear ^^

It can be a pain for you but I have no doubt things will work out for you one day and that fellow is somewhere.

I have a feeling that I know the guy you're talking about and if it is, he's creep who doesn't deserve you. But I understand what you mean, I've been having dating dryness full of annoyance as well >_>

I hope you feel better! *hug*

Yeah you might now who it was... what annoys me most is that I've never gotten a proper closure of any of the guys I've fallen inlove with, they poff gone without a word...

But yeah at least I was inlove back then, now...I dunno thing's just feels so hopeless for me...

Well if they were mostly online, sadly that' just comes with the territory >_> But I know it's so hard to meet people in person.

I guess we just have to stay somewhat optimistic that maybe some day we'll meet the right people ^^

Myeah... it's hard to stay optimistic when all you get are a negative all the time... and I've done my best to stay optimistic so far but, yeah it's been dwindling a lot lately.

Yeah I hear you but if you sink too far into the depression, it'll consume you :/

Yeah I know.

Are you still looking for a particular kind of guy or are open to any guy (within reason of course, no one should go for abusers).

No it's just the same as before.

Same as in same kind/type of guy?

Well yeah, black/colord man, a funny, geeky, family man type of man.

Haha I thought of that YouTuber "Andre Black Nerd". Someone like him?
But on that note, I feel that unless you keep searching in your area or find someone who travels, it may not be likely to find a black guy out in Sweden. I feel like Black men/women are rare in that country and you'd have better luck in a place like the United Kingdom.
Does he have to be black?

Never heard of him.
Well there are lots of colored men in Sweden, being one of the most immigrant "friendly" countries and so on. So there are some around it's just Swedish people as a kind is very introverted, we keep to ourselves and so on. <.<
Well yes, as said many times before I'm only attracted in black guys on that deeper level of a relationship, white men doesn't interest me like so more than being a friend. :/

Well, if that's the case. You should try going to a mixer. I'm sure there has to be at least one that goes on in a neighboring city near you. I'm just saying, if you're really looking online and can't find anyone local, it's better to try offline because unfortunately, long distance relationships where the person leaves 1,000 miles away seems like such a gamble as you could be more prone to getting scammed. Not6 saying it wouldn't happen locally but eh, you know what I mean.

And well, okay I guess. It's like I said before, as long as the attraction is genuine and not based on racial myths, I'm sure what you're looking for is out there and may even be local to you.

Aww that really sucks to hear Tigress, have faith in yourself and you'll find the right guy :) *hugs*