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9 years ago
I'll just leave this here.. was typing to a few of my furiends.
[Forwarded from Softie]
Like, I just confronted my mom about opening a piece of mail that explicitly said confidential.
It pertained to me filling against FedEx for damage.
When I asked her about it she repeated the question right back.
"Mom why'd you open my mail."
" I don't know why I opened it. "
Can't you give me an answer? There was no money, I don't see what you could gain from opening something not pertaining to you.
"Well, I just did."
That isn't a respectable answer and you know it.
"Well, you live under my roof. "
okay, how does that give you any right to open anybody else's property?
She was being all stuck up and... sigh like a black person with coupons. Entitled...
I don't know how to feel right now, I'm not mad because I've dealt with it before, not opening my mail but just the mindset. I don't understand her either, was she hoping to find the money?
I got my settlement from Kroger and as it turned out I did not get 8 months of backpay, instead, they gave me a settlement for 800 dollars and taxed it as well so the massive 2k amount I was lead to think I was getting didn't happen.
I mention this because I had money to "pay back" to her for helping me, my way of trying to, "own-up" as they say... I was hoping to give it to her, to see her smile and be like "this is the right thing to do, paying me when you aren't contracted to... " Well, now I didn't because of her response...
Even after typing all this I still don't know how to feel about this.
It's less than a month before college starts, I haven't saved much over the summer due to spending money not only on a PC to try and help her failing antique business go online but also buying parts for a very dear, very important individual in my life. So with the sum I just got I can now pay for 2 classes, which I'm so far behind on, to begin with.
Part of me just looks at all the things I've not done, I live with my parents, I don't have a degree, I don't own a vehicle, I work grocery... i dont feel like a failure but I look around and see what i could be, I see where i went wrong and I'm not sure i want to fix it.
That's a really messed up thing to say, that a specific minority is 'entitled'.
If you want to take it that way then that's your own choice.
No, I did not because where I live, we have mainly black, African, whatever you want to identify them as couponers.. annoying, trying to cheat the system, no bodies.
I'm stating a fact, couponers that are black, at my store act entitled.
Now please stop.