so a few weeks ago my wife told me, after coming home from a weekend away at a friends that she had not felt loved for a few years now and said friend made her feel loved and wanted to be said friends girlfriend.

This ended up very shortly after with my wife wanting to end our marriage.

This all came as a bit of a surprise to me and a shock and i'm still trying to get over that initial hit if i'm being honest with myself.

It saddens me that she didn't speak to me or anyone about this much sooner and that she didn't want to work it out but i respect her wishes.

We are still currently living together but looking to move out and on with our respective lives.

She is still my friend and in allot of way i guess still one of my best friends (not that i had many to start with ^,,^; )

i don't want to hear anything bad about her or myself here, i just want to tell people whats going on and the such.