Relationship Casualty report 8/19/2016:




Back in December of 2015 I met a girl in a support group by the name of Toni D. She was a very nice girl, and she had a service dog. The two of us became friends and we grew close and there were signs that the relationship might be turning serious. But then something happened with her and we were on a 3 month break. Then we got back together and resumed where we left off. We hung out for the first time since the break on August 8th and it was nice to see her. She said things like, "I missed you." and "I love you." She then said that the one thing she loved about me was that I didn't judge her on her medical issues and the sort. Because I don't judge, judging is reserved for a higher power.




So as we resumed the relationship she started spelling out her plans for the future for us. I liked what I was hearing but was looking at all this with caution. I was asking myself how long will this last before I'm kicked out again. I didn't have to wait long to find out. On the 9th I went over to visit again and I got to meet one of her friends, Amy. She was a nice gril but I could she had a very sharp edge. The next day I found out just how sharp. At 9:15 pm I got a call from Toni, but it wasn't Toni on the other end. It was Amy who told me that Toni didn't want to see me ever again or talk to me and that she was turning lesbian. When I asked why was she doing this, she said, "Because you gave me a UTI." Toni and I have never gone to bed together so this claim had me very confused.




Then on the Saturday of that week I was coming home from some friend's house when I texted her. I said that I was very hurt from everything and wanted to know if she really wanted me to leave her life. She responded by saying that she still loved me and that Amy had got her phone from her and said those nasty things. She then also said that she needed to kick Amy out of her life because she does this all the time to her other friends. So naturally I was hopeful the relationship was still alive. I went over to visit on the next day, Sunday, and hung out with her for a short time. I left her apartment after a few hours and on a positive note. No sign of trouble or any warnings.




On Friday, August 19th I got a call from Toni. Thinking it might be an emergency I answered. It wasn't Toni, it was Amy again. Once again I was being told that Toni doesn't want to continue the relation ship with me. She also screamed at me, "Why the hell are you still talking to Toni after I told you to leave her alone?" I responded by telling her that it was not her call to make. Toni could talk to whoever she wanted. Amy, in her angry voice which was hard to understand, continued to scream at me and I said, "I would rather hear this from Toni herself and not you." Toni got on and repeated what Amy said, only in a more friendly tone. So when the call was done I was hurt more. I sent a text message saying that I didn't understand and this is the reply:




"Just stop there is nothing to understand i have a boyfriend in you continue to text me or call me i will go get a restraining order against you. You act and talk like a 2 year old child no i don't want to be friends or have any farther communication with you. This is your final warning."




I was shocked and hurt. She never once told me that I acted like a 2 year old or that she had a boyfriend. So she played with my heart the whole time. The whole f****** time. When I told her that I would be leaving Michigan she said, "Lmao what mommy and daddy shipping you away" I said that I was leaving to clear my head so that I could detox.




This concludes the casualty report for the Toni D relationship. Report date 8/20/2016




Written and approved DM