My motto has always been: "I never leave people, people leave me." That means I will never abandon someone unless they depart from me. I will always be by their side until they tell me to leave and never return. Some people have a hard time understanding that I have a big heart and unless you want me to stop caring about you, I'll never stop caring until you tell me otherwise. I've come across people who didn't tell me to leave them alone, scream at me when I contact them.

This motto has only been violated once when I was in a abusive relationship. I had to make the first move and leave the person behind when it was clear neither of us was going to end it. With the strength of my friends behind me like  syrios,  calafin,  naketa and many others, I took the first step and sperated myself from this person.

Today the motto stands as strong as it has been since I began following it. To this day it represents who I am as a person.