Oh, there are tons of artists open for commissions. Although, I think you're better served searching the most recent submissions of your favorite species, and then contacting the FA of artists who do a style you enjoy.

Also, note, you don't NEED to have a fursona to be a furry. It's totally not necessary.

But yeah, if you want any ol' artist who knows how to draw a picture, to help create your character reference, just contact these random artists:

http://www.furaffinity.net/user/wingmandraws/
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/7783246/
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/7799995
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/strive/

Thank you.

Im struggling to know what I want. So have been rather stumped.

I have been looking through the submission for ideas and help but as yet nothing really jumps out at me ( one or two have but I'm thinking about how them)

I'd very much like to have a Fursona so I can buy and maybe go onto drawing my own art (I'm not great but I try).