Coming out day & TMI TUESDAY
9 years ago
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Today is coming out day~
And despite knowing everyone (or at least most) ppl here already know this or at least parts of it, I'm still nervous writing it out haha.
I'm a trans guy. Though my gender presentation is pretty fluid sometimes. And I like being a cute/pretty boy. I don't much care for being overly masculine. I only use He/Him/His pronouns. But I dont mind people using They/Them for me.
I'm pansexual, though I have a preference for guys, I know I have the potential to be attracted to any gender, and gender isn't really a deciding factor in me being attracted to someone. (just seems to happen more with guys of any kind, be they cis, trans, ect.).
As for relationships, I'm grey-romantic, and would be open to polyamorous relationships in the case where I do find myself romantically attracted. I don't really know what makes me romantically attracted to someone, but it's extremely rare and I rarely see the point in romantic relationships at all (for me that is). And even when I am romantically attracted to someone, I often don't want it returned or anything. (though I will admit to currently kinda wanting my current romantic attraction to be returned. bleh.)
Also because it's also Tmi tuesday (though i'm a bit late opps), if you have any questions about anything to do with being trans, pansexual, grey-romanitc, even if they're a bit intrusive, I'll do my best to answer them.
And despite knowing everyone (or at least most) ppl here already know this or at least parts of it, I'm still nervous writing it out haha.
I'm a trans guy. Though my gender presentation is pretty fluid sometimes. And I like being a cute/pretty boy. I don't much care for being overly masculine. I only use He/Him/His pronouns. But I dont mind people using They/Them for me.
I'm pansexual, though I have a preference for guys, I know I have the potential to be attracted to any gender, and gender isn't really a deciding factor in me being attracted to someone. (just seems to happen more with guys of any kind, be they cis, trans, ect.).
As for relationships, I'm grey-romantic, and would be open to polyamorous relationships in the case where I do find myself romantically attracted. I don't really know what makes me romantically attracted to someone, but it's extremely rare and I rarely see the point in romantic relationships at all (for me that is). And even when I am romantically attracted to someone, I often don't want it returned or anything. (though I will admit to currently kinda wanting my current romantic attraction to be returned. bleh.)
Also because it's also Tmi tuesday (though i'm a bit late opps), if you have any questions about anything to do with being trans, pansexual, grey-romanitc, even if they're a bit intrusive, I'll do my best to answer them.
I'm also polysexual. I'm probably borderline pan as I'm not /too/ concerned about gender, but femininity has always been a key trait for me as I don't really find physical masculinity (big muscles, rigid form, body hair etc.) attractive meaning I almost never find cis guys attractive. At the same time, sex has never really been a big deal to me (at times I feel almost disgusted at the idea of me having sex, especially as a girl because I don't like things going into me that shouldn't) so although I feel sexual attraction, I also have some ace tendencies. I'm not sure really where that puts me but if anyone can shed more light on that I'd like to hear it.
I think I'd be open to polyamorous relationships. I was briefly in one but that ended because I'm a very very low maintenance person and appreciate having a lot of alone time which can be difficult for some people to deal with
Honestly I'm unsure of a lot of things because I've spent too much time online looking at idiots rather than going out in the real world and meeting real people.
If i woke up as a cis male? or if i woke up identifying as female? or if I woke up with a male body but identified as a girl?