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DROOLS TIPS FOR BETTER LIVING (N SHIT)
9 years ago
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This journal is a compilation of things that I have started doing to live better. So if you like feel free to read! I will BOLD the stuff that is the basis of the rule. The normal writing with be me explaining why I said that. Or you can use the bold as a TL;DR! HERE WE GO!
These are all things to remember and do in moderation! There will be repetition.
1. BE HAPPY! - This is the most important thing like ever. It goes without saying!
2. STOP BEING A PEOPLE PLEASER!- For some reason we all have this sparkling perfect image of ourselves and if we don't always do the right thing it will be shattered. Ever find yourself doing something you don't want to because you don't want to make someone feel bad :(. Learn to say no. Learn to disappoint people. GREAT VIDEO HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZm4B4foybM
3. YOU CANNOT BE A "GOOD" PERSON - No one is inherently good. sometimes we do fucked up shit and it's NOT ok. We have to own up to it. But you can't keep tricking yourself into thinking. I'm always the good guy. It makes it a lot harder to own up to your fuck ups when you've convinced yourself you're the victim!
4. OWN UP TO YOUR FUCK UPS! - Sometimes we do things without thinking and we fuck up. Now someone who can't apologize is the kind of asshole you don't want to be! Mistakes are just natures way of showing us we aren't perfect. It's how we learn.
5. YOU ARE DAMAGED GOODS! - Stop trying to be perfect and make people think you are something your not. You have a disability, scars, problems? GOOD we aren't factory made, We are individuals. Our flaws may suck sometimes but it all gives us characters. Maybe someone you care about loves your stretch marks, Your sassy attitude, your ability to always arrange the dvds in alphabetical order.
6. TAKE ACTION! (But learn to apologize) - Sometimes we need to make a snap decision and sometimes it doesn't work out. BUT It's always better to ask for forgiveness rather than permission!
7. TORTURE IS GOOD FOR THE SOUL! - It's human nature to want to toy with things. We are intelligent creatures and sometimes we like to see people squirm. So do some trolling, argue with people, Train your brain to work better under stress.
8. DO NO HARM TAKE NO SHIT - On the reverse of torturing people. Do no physical harm to people unless it's in jest. (A friendly shove for instance) In serious situations only fight if you need to. Hit first and hit hard and they will not fuck with you.
9. PEOPLES OPINIONS ARE MEANINGLESS - peoples opinions of you whether good or bad should not matter to you. Whether positive or negative are you going to remember their comment in a week? And if someones opinion of you does start to shape you, then you are not being genuine.
10. DONT ATTACK THE WOUNDED! - Whether someone suffers from a physical or mental illness. it doesn't fucking matter don't attack the wounded. We are humans, I always say we are all we've got so we have to look out for each other.
11. GROW A THICKER SKIN! - Don't be a fucking pussy, Sticks and stones bitches.
12. STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN, BUT ALSO DO YOUR RESEARCH! - If you are going to defend something do it whole heartedly. But also remember to find legitimate non biased facts to back up what you have to say. You may find your views change!
13. SOME PEOPLE ARE TOO IGNORANT AND THEREFORE BLIND - Don't bother with some people, If someone refuses to believe your claim after you've given them said facts, it's not your problem you tried.
14. ONLY KILL OUT OF NECESSITY! - and if you do end it quickly.
15. FORGIVE OTHERS FOR YOURSELF! - When I forgive people normally in small cases it's for their sake but if someone fucked you up real bad get angry, get sad, but then forgive them. Not for that assholes sake for your own. For the sake of your own sanity.
16. CURSE! - it's a great way to get out anger or really drive home a point. It's alleviates stress and actually helps blood flow!
17. SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO PUNCH SOMETHING! - Sometimes you need to. Getting out anger is a great way to alleviate stress and exercise! punching bags are great!
18. CRY! ITS GOOD FOR YOU! - sometimes emotions are just too big and we get too passionate and the emotions come out as salty liquid. Its a fucking mantra at this point, But it's ok to cry! Crying is not a negative emotion! We cry when were sad, we cry when were happy.
19. LEARN TO TAKE A FUCKIN JOKE M8 - JOKE ABOUT EVERYTHING! IF you don't understand what a joke is. It is something that is meant to help us cope with things that scare us. Laughter is medicine. Joke about murder, rape, death, war, race, ect! If you are the kind of person who hears a joke and gets offended please refer to rule 11. And remember life is a fuckin joke.
20. INDULGE IN BAD THINGS! - It's nice to indulge SOMETIMES. Even if the thing we like is bad! Lifes about being happy! So your on a diet but you feel like eating ice cream, Do it. (EVERYTHING IN MODERATION!). Drink alcohol. Smoke some weed. HAVE SOME SEX. JUST DO IT.
21. WE ALL DIE - Don't torment yourself with constantly trying to do what other people want. In the end we will all die and all of your efforts will be in vain. Don't worry about being forgotten because you will be. It's just the way it is. Enjoy your time and be happy.
22. SING LOUD! - Its therapeutic! Sing in your car, shower, work, whatever! Just sing, don't worry looking funny, You are already a hairless flat faced chimp capable of complex language. Now use those vocal chords.
23. ENJOY THE SMALL THINGS - Don't do it because you feel like you have to. Do it because you enjoy it!
24. YOU ARE AN INCONVENIENCE! - just fuckin own up to it right now! I am an inconvenience. Now that that's out of the way you can actually allow people to do things for you and ask things of them. It isn't polite to always ask if things are an inconvenience it just shows low self esteem. You are worth peoples time and they are worth yours. Period.
25. QUESTION EVERYTHING! - As a naturally curious species question things. Values, beliefs, science. YES EVEN SCIENCE! It wasn't long ago that people thought ketchup was medicine and the food pyramid looked like a fat kids plate at a buffet.
26. BE INDEPENDENT. - If you rely on someone than they have control of you and shape who you will be come. Be yourself.
27. TAKE THE PAIN -sometimes you get hurt, mentally physically, whatever. Just learn from it and keep in mind that pain is temporary and the next time you are happy and feel good it will make it all worth it.
28. YOU ARE SELFISH - It's human nature to be selfish. So indulge. Do something for yourself for once, even if it might inconvenience someone. Fuck em This is your day.
29. PASSION IS LIKE AN ORGASM - GET ANGRY! GET HAPPY! GET SAD! The few seconds you feel when you get angry and curse are like a mental orgasm. Fiery intense and then gone. Just let it happen it's good for you to be passionate about certain things!
30. PET PEEVES ARE JUST THINGS YOU TAKE NOTICE OF ON A STUPIDLY HIGH LEVEL I used to have a shit ton of pet peeves and then I realized I was just finding things to get mad about because I was bored and didn't stand for anything important. But now looking back. They were the dumbest least offensive things people did. Like really Old seph, your annoyed by mouth sounds? get a life.
31. HELP EACH OTHER! - It is inherently selfish to want to help others. It makes us feel good, it makes them feel good. it's a win win. If you see someone who's injured, sad, hungry. Help them, we gotta look out for each other.
32. DON'T TRY TO TELL PEOPLE WHAT THEY CAN AND CAN'T DO! - I swear to god I will slap you, I will find you and slap you. Don't tell people to leave, stop saying something, not to wear that, Not to do that. They can do whatever the fuck they want. If you don't like it. You can leave. There are a few exceptions to this rule like if said person is hurting someone you MAKE them leave. AND REMEMBER EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO FREE SPEECH. You don't like something they say, Tell them they are being an assoholic bitch.
33. GET LOST! - Go out with no destination and explore. The world is much bigger than just your computer!
34. IF YOU DON'T SPEAK BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF WHAT YOU WILL HEAR THEN YOU CARE TOO MUCH - Ideas should be able to compete. If someones opinion of your opinion is negative then maybe they can help you understand something or visa versa.
35. ITS OK TO LOVE! - Like I said above, we are all going to die. Love passionately and strongly. Give love, love yourself, let yourself be loved, make love. Think you love someone too soon. Ain't no such thing.
Hope you enjoyed my thoughts on life n shit. Got more to add? Got offended by something I wrote :( Tell me below!
These are all things to remember and do in moderation! There will be repetition.
1. BE HAPPY! - This is the most important thing like ever. It goes without saying!
2. STOP BEING A PEOPLE PLEASER!- For some reason we all have this sparkling perfect image of ourselves and if we don't always do the right thing it will be shattered. Ever find yourself doing something you don't want to because you don't want to make someone feel bad :(. Learn to say no. Learn to disappoint people. GREAT VIDEO HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZm4B4foybM
3. YOU CANNOT BE A "GOOD" PERSON - No one is inherently good. sometimes we do fucked up shit and it's NOT ok. We have to own up to it. But you can't keep tricking yourself into thinking. I'm always the good guy. It makes it a lot harder to own up to your fuck ups when you've convinced yourself you're the victim!
4. OWN UP TO YOUR FUCK UPS! - Sometimes we do things without thinking and we fuck up. Now someone who can't apologize is the kind of asshole you don't want to be! Mistakes are just natures way of showing us we aren't perfect. It's how we learn.
5. YOU ARE DAMAGED GOODS! - Stop trying to be perfect and make people think you are something your not. You have a disability, scars, problems? GOOD we aren't factory made, We are individuals. Our flaws may suck sometimes but it all gives us characters. Maybe someone you care about loves your stretch marks, Your sassy attitude, your ability to always arrange the dvds in alphabetical order.
6. TAKE ACTION! (But learn to apologize) - Sometimes we need to make a snap decision and sometimes it doesn't work out. BUT It's always better to ask for forgiveness rather than permission!
7. TORTURE IS GOOD FOR THE SOUL! - It's human nature to want to toy with things. We are intelligent creatures and sometimes we like to see people squirm. So do some trolling, argue with people, Train your brain to work better under stress.
8. DO NO HARM TAKE NO SHIT - On the reverse of torturing people. Do no physical harm to people unless it's in jest. (A friendly shove for instance) In serious situations only fight if you need to. Hit first and hit hard and they will not fuck with you.
9. PEOPLES OPINIONS ARE MEANINGLESS - peoples opinions of you whether good or bad should not matter to you. Whether positive or negative are you going to remember their comment in a week? And if someones opinion of you does start to shape you, then you are not being genuine.
10. DONT ATTACK THE WOUNDED! - Whether someone suffers from a physical or mental illness. it doesn't fucking matter don't attack the wounded. We are humans, I always say we are all we've got so we have to look out for each other.
11. GROW A THICKER SKIN! - Don't be a fucking pussy, Sticks and stones bitches.
12. STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN, BUT ALSO DO YOUR RESEARCH! - If you are going to defend something do it whole heartedly. But also remember to find legitimate non biased facts to back up what you have to say. You may find your views change!
13. SOME PEOPLE ARE TOO IGNORANT AND THEREFORE BLIND - Don't bother with some people, If someone refuses to believe your claim after you've given them said facts, it's not your problem you tried.
14. ONLY KILL OUT OF NECESSITY! - and if you do end it quickly.
15. FORGIVE OTHERS FOR YOURSELF! - When I forgive people normally in small cases it's for their sake but if someone fucked you up real bad get angry, get sad, but then forgive them. Not for that assholes sake for your own. For the sake of your own sanity.
16. CURSE! - it's a great way to get out anger or really drive home a point. It's alleviates stress and actually helps blood flow!
17. SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO PUNCH SOMETHING! - Sometimes you need to. Getting out anger is a great way to alleviate stress and exercise! punching bags are great!
18. CRY! ITS GOOD FOR YOU! - sometimes emotions are just too big and we get too passionate and the emotions come out as salty liquid. Its a fucking mantra at this point, But it's ok to cry! Crying is not a negative emotion! We cry when were sad, we cry when were happy.
19. LEARN TO TAKE A FUCKIN JOKE M8 - JOKE ABOUT EVERYTHING! IF you don't understand what a joke is. It is something that is meant to help us cope with things that scare us. Laughter is medicine. Joke about murder, rape, death, war, race, ect! If you are the kind of person who hears a joke and gets offended please refer to rule 11. And remember life is a fuckin joke.
20. INDULGE IN BAD THINGS! - It's nice to indulge SOMETIMES. Even if the thing we like is bad! Lifes about being happy! So your on a diet but you feel like eating ice cream, Do it. (EVERYTHING IN MODERATION!). Drink alcohol. Smoke some weed. HAVE SOME SEX. JUST DO IT.
21. WE ALL DIE - Don't torment yourself with constantly trying to do what other people want. In the end we will all die and all of your efforts will be in vain. Don't worry about being forgotten because you will be. It's just the way it is. Enjoy your time and be happy.
22. SING LOUD! - Its therapeutic! Sing in your car, shower, work, whatever! Just sing, don't worry looking funny, You are already a hairless flat faced chimp capable of complex language. Now use those vocal chords.
23. ENJOY THE SMALL THINGS - Don't do it because you feel like you have to. Do it because you enjoy it!
24. YOU ARE AN INCONVENIENCE! - just fuckin own up to it right now! I am an inconvenience. Now that that's out of the way you can actually allow people to do things for you and ask things of them. It isn't polite to always ask if things are an inconvenience it just shows low self esteem. You are worth peoples time and they are worth yours. Period.
25. QUESTION EVERYTHING! - As a naturally curious species question things. Values, beliefs, science. YES EVEN SCIENCE! It wasn't long ago that people thought ketchup was medicine and the food pyramid looked like a fat kids plate at a buffet.
26. BE INDEPENDENT. - If you rely on someone than they have control of you and shape who you will be come. Be yourself.
27. TAKE THE PAIN -sometimes you get hurt, mentally physically, whatever. Just learn from it and keep in mind that pain is temporary and the next time you are happy and feel good it will make it all worth it.
28. YOU ARE SELFISH - It's human nature to be selfish. So indulge. Do something for yourself for once, even if it might inconvenience someone. Fuck em This is your day.
29. PASSION IS LIKE AN ORGASM - GET ANGRY! GET HAPPY! GET SAD! The few seconds you feel when you get angry and curse are like a mental orgasm. Fiery intense and then gone. Just let it happen it's good for you to be passionate about certain things!
30. PET PEEVES ARE JUST THINGS YOU TAKE NOTICE OF ON A STUPIDLY HIGH LEVEL I used to have a shit ton of pet peeves and then I realized I was just finding things to get mad about because I was bored and didn't stand for anything important. But now looking back. They were the dumbest least offensive things people did. Like really Old seph, your annoyed by mouth sounds? get a life.
31. HELP EACH OTHER! - It is inherently selfish to want to help others. It makes us feel good, it makes them feel good. it's a win win. If you see someone who's injured, sad, hungry. Help them, we gotta look out for each other.
32. DON'T TRY TO TELL PEOPLE WHAT THEY CAN AND CAN'T DO! - I swear to god I will slap you, I will find you and slap you. Don't tell people to leave, stop saying something, not to wear that, Not to do that. They can do whatever the fuck they want. If you don't like it. You can leave. There are a few exceptions to this rule like if said person is hurting someone you MAKE them leave. AND REMEMBER EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO FREE SPEECH. You don't like something they say, Tell them they are being an assoholic bitch.
33. GET LOST! - Go out with no destination and explore. The world is much bigger than just your computer!
34. IF YOU DON'T SPEAK BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF WHAT YOU WILL HEAR THEN YOU CARE TOO MUCH - Ideas should be able to compete. If someones opinion of your opinion is negative then maybe they can help you understand something or visa versa.
35. ITS OK TO LOVE! - Like I said above, we are all going to die. Love passionately and strongly. Give love, love yourself, let yourself be loved, make love. Think you love someone too soon. Ain't no such thing.
Hope you enjoyed my thoughts on life n shit. Got more to add? Got offended by something I wrote :( Tell me below!
RyoKyo
~ryokyo
Aha, I like most of this list. There was a frequent theme while I read this where I'd read the bit in bold and think "Hey, wait a minute now.." and then read the rest of it and that'd turn into "Ohhhh, okay!" because it was actually a positive comment. XD
LodiDah
~lodidah
OP
Yeah! glad someone actually read it. The bold were more of statements to make you think or catch your eye. hehe
megafighter_x
~megafighterx
very nice!
Nightsabra
~nightsabra
This was a nice read. :)
LoupieTheSlewx
~loupietheslewx
Very nice! Most of them are things I really needed to know and are interesting to read. We can learn a new thing everyday. Thank you!
