when I say that I wish someone might try to look at or think about what they have chosen to do, and suggest that they might: adjust, or even change what they are doing... it is not meant from a place of judgement or hypocritical criticism... it is meant in love and caring, for my friends and fellow human beings. in that I love you, and I don't wish to see you suffering from those choices' outcomes... as yes, I did make many of those choices' before, and yes I am still a sinner, even while I hope that I have been saved by grace.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwMFX7hUefc