Personally, I go with honesty when it wont cause major conflicts or cause major life changes. But if it's like, detrimental to the point you can permanently damage a relationship with someone, secrecy is probably better.

I love honesty the most, but this has the potential of ruining my relationship with my own mother. I can explain it more on Telegram

By the way you and I REALLY need to get some breeding art ;3 hmu man!

After thinking on it for a while, it is best to be honest. Even if it's my own family. Better to speak up and hopefully make a difference, than to stay quiet and nothing happen. It's frustrating, but honestly is the best policy.

Thank you too you're awesome!

That's a choice entirely up to you. Others can make it for you, because some are too scared of what others can think of them, and some just don't care what anyone could think of them at all. So you need to take some time and look inside yourself and then at the big picture. Do you feel it's okay to risk ruining some relationships to be honest to yourself and who you are, or do you feel better about potentially hurting inside and feeling like you've betrayed who you are for the rest of your life?

Honestly, for me, I'd probably go with honesty about 80% of the time, and on some things I've gone with secrecy because of end results that I wouldn't want to deal with. But each time, you need to look inside and decide which outcome would be easier/better for you to live with after making it.

It depends.

Based on what you've said thusfar, I would have to say that moms tend to know these things, even if it's only suspicion. So chances are, she probably already knows your secret.

The key thing, is whether or not your mom feels that you are...

1. Mature enough to be making this decision
2. Safe enough to be making this decision
3. Secure enough to be making this decision

If any of those things don't measure up, she may not be willing to take that chance with her baby boy. Mind you, that's not meant in insult? We are always going to be mom's baby boy/girl, no matter what.

But if all three of those things *do* measure up, then it should be safe to tell mom what's on your mind.

Ooo, that is a tough question. Personally I think it's more helpful to others to be honest as much as possible, though personally I'm not good at breaking news to people. If you have the conviction to be honest, I'd say go for it!

I would say its up to you. You should do whats best for you :) What happened anyway, if you don't mind me asking?

Don't be either, be smart!