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It's been over 2 years since I was here...
9 years ago
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I'll be honest I had some bad experiences in the fur community that made she shy away from being on this site anymore.
Plus there was a lot going on in my personal life. I was working two jobs , and transitioning at the same time. So I was going through a lot of mental and emotional roller coasters. for about a year straight. Plus I was the subject of a good friends senior theist so that took a lot of time.
If there was anyone wandering this a majority of what happened to me, plus I got really into collecting animal bones, taxidermy and all that stuff. so I've been working on a lot that and making punk vests.
But over all it was the fact that even though I'm only a small part of this community. It felt that I wasn't very welcome anymore. I can't afford a suit right now and I can't draw...so where does that leave me?
trying to take photos as Anthro Con...?
I just wanted to make friends. I wanted to have friends that were into the same thing as I. and a little on my part that didn't work out because I'm so awkward. The thing that broke my little heart was that I paid for a commission that was going to be a surprise to someone for our next con together and the Artist I paid to do the commission after I paid only messaged me twice about where to send the commission. there was no "here's a preview" after I messed the artist a lot and how no response I went on their AF and found they hadn't been on it in ALMOST A YEAR! when I had kept messaging them about my commission.
so...I never got what I paid for...and I just felt pushed out of something I really loved. 