A journal on a serious topic for once.
9 years ago
Usually, I'd do a comic to bring more attention to this, but considering my lack of productivity the last couple months that would be very unfair to the folks in my queue. As such I'll just make a statement here.
This happened locally: http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news.....412099143.html
I was kind of miffed to see furries in the comments worried more about the admittance of there being a sexual side to the fandom than the fact at least one kid and possibly more got raped. Really, dudes?
Anyway, there are local furs who actually slept over at this guys house who are horrified beyond belief at this development. It really hits home that this can happen anywhere. It makes me wonder how many people saw this little kid get whisked away upstairs at a party and said nothing.
Do not let some kind of silly fandom loyalty get in the way of doing the right thing. Like any large group, there are unfortunately going to be bad people among us. To borrow a phrase from the department of homeland security: "If you see something, say something." Better to be mistaken than to have something like this pop up later and realizing you could have prevented it.
This happened locally: http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news.....412099143.html
I was kind of miffed to see furries in the comments worried more about the admittance of there being a sexual side to the fandom than the fact at least one kid and possibly more got raped. Really, dudes?
Anyway, there are local furs who actually slept over at this guys house who are horrified beyond belief at this development. It really hits home that this can happen anywhere. It makes me wonder how many people saw this little kid get whisked away upstairs at a party and said nothing.
Do not let some kind of silly fandom loyalty get in the way of doing the right thing. Like any large group, there are unfortunately going to be bad people among us. To borrow a phrase from the department of homeland security: "If you see something, say something." Better to be mistaken than to have something like this pop up later and realizing you could have prevented it.
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Pedophilia, no. Pedophiles just have a paraphilia, which in itself is harmless. It is potentially dangerous, though, so if they start lusting after real, live children, they need therapy immediately.
I'm all for protecting kids, but I'm also against witch hunts. In this case, seeing the nuance between child molesters and pedophiles helps protect kids since you're more likely to seek help as a pedophile if you aren't seen as a monster just for having the feelings.
But yeah. To the thrust of your journal: To hell with those awful men, and the furries having knee-jerk reactions defending the fandom need to grow up.
No fandom is worth this kind of loyalty. Good on you for reporting this and calling it out.
It was just the way the article was written, as though all furries are like those shit brains. It's just that I find reporters just love to go after the 1% of certain groups that are real shit heads and make the rest of the people look horrible. And the gullible normal people just buy their stories without questioning anything.
To say I draw the line on things like this makes me want to go, "Um... duh? No shit, Sherlock."
Pie
Don't you understand
what the media thinks of furries is the most important thing
That said… I can’t fault furries for also being afraid of a backlash. Yeah, it’s highly insensitive if the first thing you say is “furries aren’t all like this.” I agree with you there! However, I think the instinct is understandable. I had the same thought many times in the ‘90s, whenever I heard some awful story about a gay man raping a minor. Of course I felt awful for the kid. (Hell, that kid could have been me! Or any number of other kids close to me!) It went without saying that the attack was unconscionable. But at the same time I was also overpowered by fear. I truly did worry that I would be associated with crimes like this simply because I am gay myself. (A reasonable fear, since it’s still a stereotype about gay men that we can’t be trusted around children.) Obviously my concern for the victim was paramount, but that didn't stop me from having other concerns as well.
All I mean to say is… yeah, think about the kids first. I’m with you on that 100%. But I don’t think it makes you a monster if you're also worried about how this incident might affect furries. (Even if, perhaps, some furries are expressing that worry in a way that is insensitive and tasteless.)
I do hate this attitude so much, I remember a similar situation not long ago when some furries actually got murdered. A furry that knew the couple that got murdered gave a statement that said something along the lines of what furries were, including the sexual deviancy. People got so mad about it that they publicly tried to shame him...while he was giving statements on the murder of his friends.
As for the community... You can't really stop some members from doing things like this, but what you can do is not participate yourself, and remain vigilant.
Furries can deny it until the cows come home, but their sub-culture creates an environment where perverts feel comfortable acting out their urges, just like how the official police forces of Afghanistan keep teenage boys as sex slaves. The difference is that those men are not considered deviants in their own society. Furries however reject their own society, and pretend to be living in an imaginary one.