Disappointing feedback
8 years ago
I am not really sure if I am doing anything wrong.
But I noticed something... I never had massive return of feedback and comments on my uploads, and that is okay. I don't seek great attention, but I'm always happy to have some reactions on the content of my gallery. But lately it seems that there is quite decline in comments.
It's actually gotten to that point where I can be happy to receive a single comment at all.
And frankly... I'm quite disappointed by this. I comment on so many pictures from others. But the return is very little. :(
Basically it feels like I could just save bothering to share my pictures with others - it wouldn't matter anyway.
And all this with over 1000 watchers.
I dunno... maybe I'm just overreacting... but it's just something I noticed. Sadly...
But I noticed something... I never had massive return of feedback and comments on my uploads, and that is okay. I don't seek great attention, but I'm always happy to have some reactions on the content of my gallery. But lately it seems that there is quite decline in comments.
It's actually gotten to that point where I can be happy to receive a single comment at all.
And frankly... I'm quite disappointed by this. I comment on so many pictures from others. But the return is very little. :(
Basically it feels like I could just save bothering to share my pictures with others - it wouldn't matter anyway.
And all this with over 1000 watchers.
I dunno... maybe I'm just overreacting... but it's just something I noticed. Sadly...
I mean, I know people seem to like it... many start watchign me everytime I upload something and the pictures get many favorites as well.
Yet noone bothers to actually take his time and give a feedback.
I happen to be one of these people x.x
I see so many other people being overrun with feedback... but then again, I guess they are simply more popular.
So far I was willing to guess, that commenting is just too much effort for some. It's easier to be lazy and just hit 'Favorite', then actually writing a comment.
I see that a lot with these 'popufurs'. They get lots of comments and feedback.
Yeah. Most people will be lazy nowadays and never out effort into really anything. They'll watch you, favorite your stuff, but never really comment or say anything at all to you.
It's a real shame though, I love the works in your gallery but i'm just as guilty for not commenting on anything x/
I'm even fine with someone simply asking me, if I'd comment on something - I like to do so!
I tend to reply to comments which have a question or a discussable content.
M/M is not my thing, so that is nothing I'll be uploading. But I believe there should be more than enough to take a liking in the kind of stuff I share in my gallery. :)
But I enjoy seeing them in a more straight content. But that is simply individual preference.
Nothing wrong with other kinks. :)
I might try it out and observe the outcome.
Thanks! :)
Even if no comments are posted, more people might enjoy the content. ^^
or rather
no one comments on my sfw pieces which says a lot about this community lmao
I am baffled every time. Thinking you surely deserve way more comments.
I have also noticed a lot of people that do post aren't particularly social either, I rarely see replies from people who do comment, though I will give them the benefit of the doubt if they are busy and can't respond, but I do remember getting a lot more replies to comments as well. I think it's a little bit of everything and it has essentially created a "perfect storm" of sorts.
And generally I'd always be up for a deal of trading comments for comments.
I don't mind. ^^
How is the comment activity there?
But let me add this.
Most of humanity is crushingly conceited. They seek only their own immediate satisfaction and they know that if you disappear, 12 others will take your place.
FA has always been a lonely realm, compared with others, but to one degree or the other, this is true everywhere.
You post art here because you enjoy it and hope another may enjoy it too. Never look for a reciprocating relationship betwixt artist and viewer though. This is a deeply passive site, rather like a TV broadcast- all one way, even if no one tunes in.
As a writer, I see people look at my work...
They never fave... They never comment... They pass as ghosts, unseen before my eyes, yet leaving the faintest of echoes that they were there.
Even if someone said, "Hey! That story of yours really sucked!" it would be something.
But to feel the ghosts pass in the night, saying nothing, touching nothing, changing nothing, passing without my understanding any of what they have seen or read or felt... this is most hurtful.
Yes, I understand what it feels like.
But 1,000 plus watchers- you are doing something right. You should consider that to be a rather significant endorsement my friend!
I have been at this for a decade now- and I have 98 watchers. When one use to leave- I was crushed. But I soon realized that if I write only to please others, I am not doing what I want to do. Unless you are being paid, writing for others is pointless.
Now if someone is paying you- here is the highest compliment you can receive!
I don't know if you are commissioned, but if you are- well done. Parting with money is the single most sincere compliment a person can give.
And lastly, Furs can be incredibly... inconsiderate. Far more than the population at large. Perhaps a better word is, uncaring. They simply don't care that you might want feedback or appreciation.
But there are some really beautiful people here too. People who care about others.
And I see by the number of comments here in this journal, that many people do care about you friend. Trust me, I wish I could get five replies on anything I post- and as a writer, I pour my heart into my work every bit as much as an artist.
When you have 10,000 watchers, you might reach the level of appreciation you seek. Keep it up- you seem to be rising quickly!
Personally? I see comments as a bonus, not a requirement; not even enough so for me to feel disdain if I find none. I get the art I get because I want to, not because it's more or less likely to give me more attention and thus more comments. Getting artwork and not only hoping, but expecting, feedback for it, is not gonna garner you anything but disappointment.
Just do what I do; get artwork if you want, when you want(and if you can, obviously). Do it for yourself, not for others. An example is that I could be getting zero watches, zero comments, zero favorites, etc. and I wouldn't give a flying damn. My artwork is for my personal enjoyment which I've chosen to share publicly for people to enjoy if they want! I do neither expect nor request they do so, it's entirely their own choice whether to do so or not.