I too have struggles with ABU. Since I don't have any credit cards (my mother has a debt card, but I NEVER dare purchasing diapers with her card!), I pay by money order. Once I mail it to them, I have to send a e-mail to remind them that a money order is coming their way because a few times they don't check their mail often.

Now it takes a few days for the money order to arrive, plus a few more days to cash in the money order, so lately I've been sending e-mails reminding them to speed up with the shipping. It usually takes about a week for my package to arrive at my home, but since they opened their new location, it now takes two or three days.

But the REAL hard part is once the package has been delivered, I have to be there so I could hide it from my mother (she doesn't know about my diaper fetish). If she see the package, I have to make up an excuse that it's housekeeping supplies for my job.

Well, I don't use a credit card, but I do use Visa gift cards (MasterCard would probably work the same). The kind that most stores sell where they sell Amazon and Starbucks gift cards etc. Not the reloadable kind, just plain Visa gift cards, in $25, $50, $100 or $25-$500 denominations, plus a $5.95 purchase fee. It seems to work fine for me.

As for getting them into the house without people asking questions, I know what you mean. I usually have to only order samples of two diapers at around the time I ordered something else from Amazon or eBay etc. And say, oh an item was back ordered and they shipped separately.

I've since gotten a private mailbox (like a P.O. Box) so I don't have to worry about it being delivered to the house. But still usually only buy 2diaper samples since a large box is still difficult to smuggle into the house unnoticed.

I think you just need to come up with some creative story about something else you need to buy during normal business hours, and if anyone asks just saying that's what you're buying. Usually I think we're overly-scared/sensitive about diapers because we know about them....when someone else doesn't know about them, it would be the LAST thing they would ever think your'e doing. Even if someone's suspicious, it would probably be thinking your'e buying drugs or something.

Ya just have to get my some Dips. Gotta hardcore Dip addiction man. That could mean Anything. You're right but I'm also lazy so the idea of waking up a few hours early for work just to go get them is like eeehhhhhhh. Im planning some days off soon so if they happen to be open ill try going then.

Maybe you could tweet at them and see if you can sort something out between you? :3

I finally bought a private mailbox to eliminate the worry associated with thinking up excuses for "what was in the package that was delivered while you were away?" questions. It's like $75 for six months, and I still mostly order samples of 2 at a time since it's still difficult to get them into the house unnoticed, but the piece of mind knowing that it won't be delivered to the house is worth it to me. There's gotta be a UPS store or something nearby. If you can justify the expense. The need for diapers, and the need to keep it under wraps can be costly at times.

I used to get Bambino samples, which are great diapers, but have moved toward ABU lately because I like the single tapes per side on the Cushies and similar products, and if I order something before (I can't remember what time, but before the orders ship that day) it usually arrives the next day, (where I live.)

Good luck with your quest, sir.