Once face, two face, three face-four
16 years ago
General
-[ DeviantART - Drawing ]-[ DeviantART - Photography ]-[ Twitter ]-[ FurSpace ]-[ Tumblr ]-
-[ My Characters ]-[ Xbox 360 Games ]-
Everyone has a different face, would anyone disagree? You'll be really open to long term friends and talk so easily about shared interests, you've got possibly years and maybe decades of being there for eachother. However you're not going to be all phisical, with them. Jumping to a hug, no closer friends get that don't they? They're the ones you can let yourself just relax and not care so much with what they see. Afterall, haven't they long accepted who and what you are? Of course, it's why they are such good and well respected friends.
You're going to be shy infront of that one you love when it's starting up, maybe you can be open at first but lets face it, you'll panic and worry a tad no matter how much you may try to hide it. But that lover you've been with a while, you'll be so open and in love that you'll almost never worry about the little things. So what about that real one, the lover you've had for years. You're pratically a married couple right (even if you hate to hear that), aren't you worried about making a mistake? You want to make them happy and keep them interested in you. Add a bit of adventure and make both of you fall in love all over, somehow I'm guessing your normal friends don't get that treatment either ;)
But wait, whats with all this? Personal life? What about work? College? School? You treat those you work with respectfully, you depend on them and they do you. You're all working for the same company after all, your job depends on the companies success. Maybe you have personal issues with them, but for the most part you can be civil, right? And what about when you were in college, have some fun, learn who you are. You think your life has started and now, NOW, no one can say what you can or can't do. You're free... and then the plane crashes and you realise what it's all like. But hey, you had a good bit of fun along the way finding it all out. Oh now don't forget school, you look up to some teachers, others you hate. You're the perfect pupil for one and the real monster for another. You think you're 'all that' but each time these teachers prove you're wrong, you think they are annoying and yet, they're still teaching you new things even though you don't know it.
We all react differently and treat people differently. Why? Because the situation for how we meet everyone changes. Maybe we meet one person in a club or party but another one you met them at the libary. Which one are you going to be active and hyper around and which one are you going to have long chats about things with? I think it can be fairly obvious what the majority would pick even if you're the minority.
We can't help how we talk about others or how we talk about them. It's in our nature.
GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SPREAD RUMOURS TO MAKE THAT PERSON LOOK BAD BY CLAIMING SOMEONE WHO'S BROKE IS SPENDING £110 OR MORE ON SOME PICTURES HOWEVER IS PATHETIC! Whats wrong with you and what have I done? I've tried to remain respectfull and keep my distance from you, whome have continued to cause me trouble and spreading lies about me. Do you really enjoy causing so much trouble just to get a little laugh in the end? Infact, whats my spending got to do with you? Got to say something about everything thats none of your buisness (and yes I mean litrally buisness, hiring someones services for an act and getting a result, yeah, I'd say this was related to buisness).
I hope everyone can respect everything I've said... until I destroyed my credibility by shouting out and revealing all this is just a silly personal issue. Seriously, this may be a 'responce' to someone trying to say things against me, but the main bulk of all that is still valid (just a whole lot easier to think about before that previous paragraph).
To end on a lighter note, how do you treat everyone? Do you act in certain ways? Do you judge people because a friend dislikes them or like them just because you feel you have to? Try to think about how you act differently all the time because you can never know how things will pan out. Maybe that 'just a friend' could really be a life long friend, maybe more. Could even be you're blinded by the fun that you've not realised you barely have anything in common except going out to parties and getting drunk. I'm not saying they're not your friend, but it's interesting to realise how you treat people that deserve more in life from you compared to others. Your relationship with someone is just that, YOUR RELATIONSHIP with them. Why base your thoughts on someone on something or someone else. Otherwise how many friends would anyone have? I'm sure theres a friend of yours another friend dislikes, maybe even hate.
You're going to be shy infront of that one you love when it's starting up, maybe you can be open at first but lets face it, you'll panic and worry a tad no matter how much you may try to hide it. But that lover you've been with a while, you'll be so open and in love that you'll almost never worry about the little things. So what about that real one, the lover you've had for years. You're pratically a married couple right (even if you hate to hear that), aren't you worried about making a mistake? You want to make them happy and keep them interested in you. Add a bit of adventure and make both of you fall in love all over, somehow I'm guessing your normal friends don't get that treatment either ;)
But wait, whats with all this? Personal life? What about work? College? School? You treat those you work with respectfully, you depend on them and they do you. You're all working for the same company after all, your job depends on the companies success. Maybe you have personal issues with them, but for the most part you can be civil, right? And what about when you were in college, have some fun, learn who you are. You think your life has started and now, NOW, no one can say what you can or can't do. You're free... and then the plane crashes and you realise what it's all like. But hey, you had a good bit of fun along the way finding it all out. Oh now don't forget school, you look up to some teachers, others you hate. You're the perfect pupil for one and the real monster for another. You think you're 'all that' but each time these teachers prove you're wrong, you think they are annoying and yet, they're still teaching you new things even though you don't know it.
We all react differently and treat people differently. Why? Because the situation for how we meet everyone changes. Maybe we meet one person in a club or party but another one you met them at the libary. Which one are you going to be active and hyper around and which one are you going to have long chats about things with? I think it can be fairly obvious what the majority would pick even if you're the minority.
We can't help how we talk about others or how we talk about them. It's in our nature.
GOING OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SPREAD RUMOURS TO MAKE THAT PERSON LOOK BAD BY CLAIMING SOMEONE WHO'S BROKE IS SPENDING £110 OR MORE ON SOME PICTURES HOWEVER IS PATHETIC! Whats wrong with you and what have I done? I've tried to remain respectfull and keep my distance from you, whome have continued to cause me trouble and spreading lies about me. Do you really enjoy causing so much trouble just to get a little laugh in the end? Infact, whats my spending got to do with you? Got to say something about everything thats none of your buisness (and yes I mean litrally buisness, hiring someones services for an act and getting a result, yeah, I'd say this was related to buisness).
I hope everyone can respect everything I've said... until I destroyed my credibility by shouting out and revealing all this is just a silly personal issue. Seriously, this may be a 'responce' to someone trying to say things against me, but the main bulk of all that is still valid (just a whole lot easier to think about before that previous paragraph).
To end on a lighter note, how do you treat everyone? Do you act in certain ways? Do you judge people because a friend dislikes them or like them just because you feel you have to? Try to think about how you act differently all the time because you can never know how things will pan out. Maybe that 'just a friend' could really be a life long friend, maybe more. Could even be you're blinded by the fun that you've not realised you barely have anything in common except going out to parties and getting drunk. I'm not saying they're not your friend, but it's interesting to realise how you treat people that deserve more in life from you compared to others. Your relationship with someone is just that, YOUR RELATIONSHIP with them. Why base your thoughts on someone on something or someone else. Otherwise how many friends would anyone have? I'm sure theres a friend of yours another friend dislikes, maybe even hate.
FA+

At the same time though I'm sure theres certain things you'd say in front of some people and not others despite being close to you. I think the most common would be talking about a sex life, thats the easiest thing it seems. Talking to friends can be gloating a bit or asking for advice, theres no end to where it can go. Even telling a funny story. But how many people can say those same things to family? Not many.
The idea of what someones like to people and not even realising it is interesting. You think you have two faces? Ok thats fair, might be more but you're comfortable with that so thats good. I think I have one for my family one for work people and one from (other) students and teachers (when I'm a student). From there the different aspects of me grow depending on the idividual... if I ever start to open from my shell (which on it's own can take a year or two).
Don't you just love psychology and looking at human nature ','
Interesting to see someone very much aware of who and what they are to such a level and being able to see and tell things of others like this ','