I am going to take a moment, and vent a little
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Why is it the only people keeping their shit together in this mess are some of the grandchildren? Seriously....
1: My grandmother didn't want her ex husband at her funeral, that shit is weird, and I wouldn't, no offence to my mother and father want them at each others funeral.
2: She wanted a catholic mass funeral with "Ave Maria" played & and to be remembered as the devoted Catholic she was.
3: My uncle needs to understand, that he needs to be there for his family. He also needs to understand that his wife needs to stay at home, if she can't learn that she is not liked for her childish behaviour and way she treated my grandmother. ( if the rumours are true, since I was not there)
4: YOUR MOTHER WOULD NOT WANT HER CHILDREN TREATING EACH OTHER THIS WAY!! YOU WERE RAISED BETTER!! FIGHTING IS NOT HOW TO HANDLE THIS!! GET GRIEVANCE THERAPY!!
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Once you see the casket entering the room, you will all forget why you were fighting, and begin to remember the memories you all shared. You will realise that this fighting is pointless. You all need to put the issues aside and come together like the Luc family used to. Life is to short to keep living by such hostile means. I know you feel hate in your heart, but I know deep down you still love each other.
Seriously, I am not flying across country to pay respects to one of the most important women in my life, to have to sit through this Jerry Springier bullshit. for another day. I will seriously disown everyone, and wash my hands of you all.