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I'm The Littlest "Little" And Your "Little Space" Is A Joke
8 years ago
I was thinking about this the other day and why it is that so many people, including many adult babies and other "Littles" hate me so much... and I think it's because I'm just... "more little" than they are.
In general, on a generic level, being a "Little" and such is largely just about favoring childish pursuits, whether it's coloring with crayons, playing with Legos, dressing below your age, etc, etc. And on the AB end it's largely sexual in nature, on an object oriented level (like getting aroused by tights, sweaters, corsets, leather, rubber, etc).
But beyond that I think there's a significant psychology aspect that either isn't present, or isn't very prevalent in most ABs and "Littles" who, at least from my perspective, are largely pedestrians to the form so to speak,
That psychological aspect is largely what I call "Little Thinking". That is, how much of your adult side does your "Little" side dominate. Like many "Littles" the more adult or parental someone is acting towards me, the more my "Little" side kicks in and the more my adult side shuts down completely, which can actually be a bit dangerous. Many in the community talk about going into a kind of "Little Space" where they seemingly, by active choice, orient themselves into such "Little Thinking".
For those like me though... we're effectively always in a "Little Space" to some degree or another, even when our adult side is in control, it's still very influenced by our "Little" side. For example on political issues, many in the community have very hardcore, set in stone, fixed opinions and perceptions about things. To the point where they can actually be well and truly worried/concerned about the state of political affairs. For me though it's just like... fun and games. Politics are more like a playground or a fun interactive toy to poke and prod at to see what happens.
And this is generally how I see most "adult" forms... they're like toys to me and that's largely how i treat them. Where as so many others treat them as ~serious~ business, to me, it's just... fun. I don't really worry about them, I take a very casual, cavalier attitude and have a very childish outlook on events.
This manifests into a kind of, "I don't take anything seriously, least of all myself." but ultimately it's just my "Little" side largely directs my adult level outlook on life. So even when my adult side is in control, my "Little" side is basically riding a top my shoulders and trying to steer me around.
And that's also probably why for "Littles" like me there's no kind of directed/slow transition into a "Little Space". For "Littles" like me, if someone simply forcibly treats me like a child (mostly on the RL level) or if I'm actively engaging in "Little" activities like coloring, or if I'm wearing "Little" clothes... there is no "choice" involved, I'm inherently locked into that "Little Space" simply by default... which, again, can be somewhat dangerous. Those like myself have to be very careful when it comes to interpersonal relationships, because on the real world level we can be easily manipulated and controlled by others if they're actively aware of our "Little" side.
In general, on a generic level, being a "Little" and such is largely just about favoring childish pursuits, whether it's coloring with crayons, playing with Legos, dressing below your age, etc, etc. And on the AB end it's largely sexual in nature, on an object oriented level (like getting aroused by tights, sweaters, corsets, leather, rubber, etc).
But beyond that I think there's a significant psychology aspect that either isn't present, or isn't very prevalent in most ABs and "Littles" who, at least from my perspective, are largely pedestrians to the form so to speak,
That psychological aspect is largely what I call "Little Thinking". That is, how much of your adult side does your "Little" side dominate. Like many "Littles" the more adult or parental someone is acting towards me, the more my "Little" side kicks in and the more my adult side shuts down completely, which can actually be a bit dangerous. Many in the community talk about going into a kind of "Little Space" where they seemingly, by active choice, orient themselves into such "Little Thinking".
For those like me though... we're effectively always in a "Little Space" to some degree or another, even when our adult side is in control, it's still very influenced by our "Little" side. For example on political issues, many in the community have very hardcore, set in stone, fixed opinions and perceptions about things. To the point where they can actually be well and truly worried/concerned about the state of political affairs. For me though it's just like... fun and games. Politics are more like a playground or a fun interactive toy to poke and prod at to see what happens.
And this is generally how I see most "adult" forms... they're like toys to me and that's largely how i treat them. Where as so many others treat them as ~serious~ business, to me, it's just... fun. I don't really worry about them, I take a very casual, cavalier attitude and have a very childish outlook on events.
This manifests into a kind of, "I don't take anything seriously, least of all myself." but ultimately it's just my "Little" side largely directs my adult level outlook on life. So even when my adult side is in control, my "Little" side is basically riding a top my shoulders and trying to steer me around.
And that's also probably why for "Littles" like me there's no kind of directed/slow transition into a "Little Space". For "Littles" like me, if someone simply forcibly treats me like a child (mostly on the RL level) or if I'm actively engaging in "Little" activities like coloring, or if I'm wearing "Little" clothes... there is no "choice" involved, I'm inherently locked into that "Little Space" simply by default... which, again, can be somewhat dangerous. Those like myself have to be very careful when it comes to interpersonal relationships, because on the real world level we can be easily manipulated and controlled by others if they're actively aware of our "Little" side.
