My New Years Resolution!
7 years ago
I've been thinking about this for a couple of months and I decided to be.... less social-able. And I'm not talking about just here.. I'm talking about life and other sites. I will be social with close friends that I trust and care about with my life, I'm mostly referring people that are strangers, people that pop in and out from time to time, and people that.. just don't talk to me at all and just added me cause they wanna look like their my friend to others. I have a couple of reasons for this resolution. For one thing.. I noticed when people just add me ((and I'm talking about a lot of other sites, not just here.)) they have a reason why they added me. If they added me cause they like what I make and enjoy what I make.. then that's good and I'm fine with that. If someone added me cause they wanna be my friend.. then that's cool.. just talk to me and get to know me more. If someone added me cause they want something from me.. like.. a sprite of their character, a sprite sheet of their character, if they can be in a video.. then that's just... just no... they aren't friends or true followers.. they are just people that want to use and abuse.. and to me.. if there is someone that followed me for that intention.. just don't even bother.. cause what I'm gonna say is "I don't know you that well, so no c:" and no I don't do it to be mean or to be an ass, I do it because if you let someone like that get what they want... they can run over top of you.. and pretty much use you like a doormat or a piece of meat to get what they want.. they are greedy and pretty much don't care about you. People like that make me sick and cringe. ((yes I used the word cringe, get over it XD))
I'm also doing the resolution due to the fact that a lot of people ((and I'm talking about everywhere I go, not just here on this site.)) tend to drag me into.. you guessed it right... drama! Everywhere I go I see drama and ignore it like it doesn't exist. ((no lie, I get it in my inbox on many sites I'm on EVERY SINGLE DAY XD)) Now.. of coarse as much as you avoid such plagues as.. drama, there are "friends" or people that you know or heard of that try to drag you into the plague.. drama. Now usually whenever someone tries to plague me with drama.. I would say "come on dude/dude-ette.. I'm not into drama" or "don't drag me into something that really isn't any of my business." Just to warn them and to drop the subject, but if they continue to drag me into it.. I would stop talking to them for a while ((usually that works and they wake the hint.)). Now... if they continue to drag me into it.. then they leave me no choice.. but to block them.. ignore them... and forget about them.. as harsh as it sounds.. sometimes the best solution is to be "harsh". well.. not the nicest, but it's pretty last resort/final option.
Drama is pretty much the biggest reason why I wasn't real social-able in the first place when I joined the great worldwide web. After a while I began to be social with a good bit of people.. but through out the years up to leading now.. I'm starting to think that being social-able.. just isn't cutting it out for me. Now yes.. I found and met some really good and close friends/people that are like family to me.. and I find people that have and use the plague well known as drama to move on with their lives.. or people that just don't like what I make or don't like me in general.
for people that are addicted with drama: Don't drag me into your addiction.
for people that don't like what I make: Go watch/follow someone that makes stuff you like.
for people that don't like me in general: That's fine, get a ticket and get in line. c:
I would like to thank everyone that has been my friend/family that have been there for me so much for being in my life, for cheering me on with what I make on here and on other sites, For not judging me on what I make and what I like, for also being by my side. THANK YOU ALL AND HAPPY NEW YEAR! :D
I'm also doing the resolution due to the fact that a lot of people ((and I'm talking about everywhere I go, not just here on this site.)) tend to drag me into.. you guessed it right... drama! Everywhere I go I see drama and ignore it like it doesn't exist. ((no lie, I get it in my inbox on many sites I'm on EVERY SINGLE DAY XD)) Now.. of coarse as much as you avoid such plagues as.. drama, there are "friends" or people that you know or heard of that try to drag you into the plague.. drama. Now usually whenever someone tries to plague me with drama.. I would say "come on dude/dude-ette.. I'm not into drama" or "don't drag me into something that really isn't any of my business." Just to warn them and to drop the subject, but if they continue to drag me into it.. I would stop talking to them for a while ((usually that works and they wake the hint.)). Now... if they continue to drag me into it.. then they leave me no choice.. but to block them.. ignore them... and forget about them.. as harsh as it sounds.. sometimes the best solution is to be "harsh". well.. not the nicest, but it's pretty last resort/final option.
Drama is pretty much the biggest reason why I wasn't real social-able in the first place when I joined the great worldwide web. After a while I began to be social with a good bit of people.. but through out the years up to leading now.. I'm starting to think that being social-able.. just isn't cutting it out for me. Now yes.. I found and met some really good and close friends/people that are like family to me.. and I find people that have and use the plague well known as drama to move on with their lives.. or people that just don't like what I make or don't like me in general.
for people that are addicted with drama: Don't drag me into your addiction.
for people that don't like what I make: Go watch/follow someone that makes stuff you like.
for people that don't like me in general: That's fine, get a ticket and get in line. c:
I would like to thank everyone that has been my friend/family that have been there for me so much for being in my life, for cheering me on with what I make on here and on other sites, For not judging me on what I make and what I like, for also being by my side. THANK YOU ALL AND HAPPY NEW YEAR! :D