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8 years ago
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So I need some feedback on this? Please?
Listen I know how fucking annoying it is listening to someone's bullshit asshole opinion on any given topic. But I'm seriously fucked up about this.
WHY ... WHY THE FUCK are people hopping from relationship to relationship (through this website) and during the entire eclipse of their relationship, they still post porn with others (some even featuring these images on the front of their page), flirt around with everyone, just being overall sexual fiends.
Is this wrong for me to feel disturbed by this? Is it now considered "cool" to erotic roleplay with 10 fucking people at once while you're supposed to be making a life with another person? And who the fuck decided these short term internet SEXUALIZED relationships were okay anyways? Since when did people start relationships to say stupid shit like "omg they're my baby wolf bear" and then fucking break up so they can move on to some fuck buddy that they probably talked to the entire relationship anyways? You have to realize. The people I am talking about, will have a breakup and they pick someone up the next day. Since when did internet relationships become an excuse for this behavior?
And don't come on here saying "they agree about it," FUCK YOU nobody in their right goddamn mind likes their significant other talking to someone and planning subconciously to be with that person when they're over you.
For example: how would you feel if you really like someone, got together with them for maybe a month. You never got to meet them even though thats all you two talked about? Meanwhile the entire relationship they were having sexual conversations with others, often times probably ignoring you for these people, getting pornographic art of what THEY WISH they could do to each other in real life. And when they finally leave you , theyre so relieved because now they can choose the next buddy they already had in line the entire time. You were replaced. Instantly. How would you feel? Probably jealous, heartbroken, scared, alone, amiright?
Maybe I'm too old fashioned. Maybe I'm too stuck on the idea that love and friendship are supposed to be separate. Maybe my belief of true love is now lost in the ocean because it was altered and meddled with until it got angry and left us.
I'M FUCKING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH SOME OF THE PEOPLE ON THIS FFFFFUCKING WEBSITE.
- sorry for the rant but I'm seriously doubting the integrity of nearly everyone here.
Listen I know how fucking annoying it is listening to someone's bullshit asshole opinion on any given topic. But I'm seriously fucked up about this.
WHY ... WHY THE FUCK are people hopping from relationship to relationship (through this website) and during the entire eclipse of their relationship, they still post porn with others (some even featuring these images on the front of their page), flirt around with everyone, just being overall sexual fiends.
Is this wrong for me to feel disturbed by this? Is it now considered "cool" to erotic roleplay with 10 fucking people at once while you're supposed to be making a life with another person? And who the fuck decided these short term internet SEXUALIZED relationships were okay anyways? Since when did people start relationships to say stupid shit like "omg they're my baby wolf bear" and then fucking break up so they can move on to some fuck buddy that they probably talked to the entire relationship anyways? You have to realize. The people I am talking about, will have a breakup and they pick someone up the next day. Since when did internet relationships become an excuse for this behavior?
And don't come on here saying "they agree about it," FUCK YOU nobody in their right goddamn mind likes their significant other talking to someone and planning subconciously to be with that person when they're over you.
For example: how would you feel if you really like someone, got together with them for maybe a month. You never got to meet them even though thats all you two talked about? Meanwhile the entire relationship they were having sexual conversations with others, often times probably ignoring you for these people, getting pornographic art of what THEY WISH they could do to each other in real life. And when they finally leave you , theyre so relieved because now they can choose the next buddy they already had in line the entire time. You were replaced. Instantly. How would you feel? Probably jealous, heartbroken, scared, alone, amiright?
Maybe I'm too old fashioned. Maybe I'm too stuck on the idea that love and friendship are supposed to be separate. Maybe my belief of true love is now lost in the ocean because it was altered and meddled with until it got angry and left us.
I'M FUCKING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH SOME OF THE PEOPLE ON THIS FFFFFUCKING WEBSITE.
- sorry for the rant but I'm seriously doubting the integrity of nearly everyone here.
If I would have a girlfriend, and she did get that kind of art, flirted and ERPed before we got together, I would kindly ask her to stop, because it feels like cheating to me in a way. :/
So no, you are not the only one, I was afraid I was the only one around before you made this journal...
Yes, it would break me inside as well if I saw her still doing that online with others.
If you are old fashioned then I'm as well, but it all just feels wrong. It's like wild animals, not like anthros. (Even animals are sometimes better with holding on to their loved one >-> )
I feel really bad for the ones like you mentioned here :/ Having partner without that same mindset, and not having the courage to confront them must be really mentally draining for them. :(
Scream it louder for the people in the back
I'm sure its different for the poly peeps tho
And maybe they don't think anything online seems real?
Poly seems to be very popular on this site but I can't help but feel that a lot of it isn't taken seriously.
And there's more 'playing' than actual communication in the relationships.
Like I draw porn of my main fursona with others, my boyfriend of 2 years is fine with it and knows I'm not about getting into anything with someone else.
We've communicated.
It just honestly feels like the people doing this are playing this like a game instead of treating it like there are real emotions.
Which is super fucked :/
People deserve love and a partner that respects them ♥ Everyone deserves better than having their heart broken like that
and everyone deserves a support system to help them get out of something they don't want to be in ♥
And I think it's really kind of you to give a platform for them to feel comfortable ♥
Good! I'm so proud of her too! She deserves to be comfortable and confident in a relationship ♥
I hope the best for her
And that's exactly how I feel about ERP as well, it's like cheating if you properly think about it. You already date someone, why then have sexual content with someone else?
My boyfriend and I have been together nearly two years now, and we greatly enjoy sharing ourselves with others. We both really enjoy watching each other with other playmates as well. We aren't polyamorous at all, we just enjoy sharing our sexuality with others.
I think the key is for everyone to be completely open and honest, about their desires and discomforts, and to be willing to compromise so everyone is happy.
And meanwhile one partner is poly, the other is against it. I just want to clear that air in case you might have thought I was talking about the big picture.
I am completely chill and comfortable with the idea of Poly I am moreso concerned with the many friends I've seen heartbroken because they were with someone who was essentially playing them by being Poly dishonestly without them fully knowing, when they were not. I have seen them hurting and I hate it.
I know I do, just to cross it off the bucket list XD