Social behavior in the fandom
7 years ago
Long time I haven't written a journal. But today I'd like to talk about the social behavior in the fandom. Today I've seen one of the worst social behaviors, I'd like to say that is something that barely happens but I'm afraid you all know about I talk about. When someone just critizise... and doesn't bring a solution.
What I feel is... pity, some people are so anxious, spending time of their lifes searching the most little mistake, double meaning, jokes to bounce to your neck and destroy you in front of a lot of people.
Years before when you didn't like something, you thought something was wrong you went directly to the person responsible and told "hey, I think you should solve this". Now, with the privacy of internet people doesn't care anymore, they critizise you in front of groups with a lot of people. As if they were perfect, as if they judge.
Imagine for a moment that every joke you do, every comment, every action was critizised, just in front of a lot of people, you'd look like shit. Lot of furries do this, I want to think they don't do it consciously.
I guess this people have a lot of problems in their real lifes, things they can't solve and making you feel bad is the best they can do. They protect themselves under groups of people who love critizised, but don't be critizised, in order to feel themselves the leader, to have for a moment the control of their lifes.
It's what SJWs do, the radical behavior of social justice provides them something they couldn't get in their lifes. It's just a coward way to feel better than others. Want an advice? Just relax, just live and let the other have their values, if you don't feel agreed it's okey, live as you want and don't push the others.
And be brave! If something is wrong, go to the person and tell, don't use groups to crucify anybody! Otherwise... ask yourself what kind of person you are that you need the approval of others, the bravery of others to do something.
What I feel is... pity, some people are so anxious, spending time of their lifes searching the most little mistake, double meaning, jokes to bounce to your neck and destroy you in front of a lot of people.
Years before when you didn't like something, you thought something was wrong you went directly to the person responsible and told "hey, I think you should solve this". Now, with the privacy of internet people doesn't care anymore, they critizise you in front of groups with a lot of people. As if they were perfect, as if they judge.
Imagine for a moment that every joke you do, every comment, every action was critizised, just in front of a lot of people, you'd look like shit. Lot of furries do this, I want to think they don't do it consciously.
I guess this people have a lot of problems in their real lifes, things they can't solve and making you feel bad is the best they can do. They protect themselves under groups of people who love critizised, but don't be critizised, in order to feel themselves the leader, to have for a moment the control of their lifes.
It's what SJWs do, the radical behavior of social justice provides them something they couldn't get in their lifes. It's just a coward way to feel better than others. Want an advice? Just relax, just live and let the other have their values, if you don't feel agreed it's okey, live as you want and don't push the others.
And be brave! If something is wrong, go to the person and tell, don't use groups to crucify anybody! Otherwise... ask yourself what kind of person you are that you need the approval of others, the bravery of others to do something.
Obviously these types aren't limited to the furry fandom, but the point still stands: the respect you give is the respect you earn.