this happens EXTREMELY often for me... I meet a guy get to start to be really awesome and close friends with them then at some point they lose their GF(or didn't have one to start) and suddenly start making passes at me... and I am like WTF NOOOO! I just want to be friends don't drag that shit into this relationship! I finally made a solid broskie straight male friend! AND YOU TURN ON ME!?

What is amusing is 99% of my non-straight friends do not care for me at all that way(which is why I keep them but I can't do to much manly straight guys with them except three of them, they know whom they are. but are also far from me.).
I've somehow magically turned at least 15 really manly guys into *unmentionable words*. it REALLY REALLY Creeps me out because I always lose them as friends when I really push it through their thick skulls that I DO NOT swing that way especially not for them! I might like guys a bit(haha cocks abs and ass, and purely physically cept these two guys I know). But really WHY?! WHY ME!? I am pretty down right not good looking, below average and skinny and what have you. Is it because I am really close with them and show them that guys can care about your feelings and shit too? Seriously I want to know what is it that this happens to me. I CAN'T KEEP A SINGLE STRAIGHT MALE FRIEND without them turning for me eventually. At best I can keep my distance from the ones I meet and not get close or be nice to them(I like being a complete dick anyway but yea) but the danger seems to always lurk around the corner and now I am always paranoid so am passing up some great friendships out of fear of losing them and shit cause I don't want them "That Way." I know its probably real bigotry and shit that I "want straight male friends" and what not, but I mean I love my non-straight friends too! Just that I can't do things with them without it being innapropriate and shit(no not sexual things, I can't explain it to you or them though).

*shifty eyes* It has me really on edge ALL THE TIME cause 3 of my most important at the time and closest male friends seemed to systematically turn "gay for me" or some shit like that, and so I did some stuff with them(of a semi-sexual/heated nature) which I pretty bad did regret some years back and soon our relationships fell apart and we just stopped talking to each other and rapidly drifted apart, one of them has started to rekindle our friendship cause he is happily mated to his girl.

My problem: I can't say no to my close friends. So things will tend to spiral faster.
Question that I am asking experienced people in this matter: How do I prevent this from ever happening again D: While still staying close friends with them? Most people scoff or find this all hard to believe but it is rough on me non-the-less and true. (Let us avoid subject matter like "well everyone is Bi/Gay at some point in their life you can't necessarily avoid you triggering it" etc, al.)

Should I do things like, not be so close with them(impossible for me not to) or comfort/care about them(also impossible for me to not do -_-)


PS: I know FA is probably a BAD place to talk about it but yea, oh and gals if you have some answers too anything will probably help I am trying not to lose friends here after all so other perspectives are godsends!