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Life update: 26/4/18 rare AngeFox becomes Rarer still
7 years ago
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Okay so as some may or may not know i got into a relationship near the front end of Febuary, with someone ive been crushing on for about a year, we have been friends for 3 years and she was in a relationship. It broke down and we ended up together which is all hunky dory.
However my gf has a few physical problems that make her less then fully mobile, Hip impingement in both hips and hip displasia in one so she lives in perpetual pain. Me and her were thinking it might be worth me leaving my job to become her carer until the operations and all the other stuff she needs have been completed and she gets her mobility back. However she started to have what we can only guess are absence seizures, basically its like she zones out and isnt fully aware of whats going on, could say shes buffering or trying to find connection.
She had one of these in the shower and had i not been there she would of fallen, i took a few days off work as these seemed to become more frequent and it was decided that i will become her carer earlier then planned. Last Sunday however the Siezures became physical, shes started to have actual Fits but it was one then she would be okay for a few hours then another. On Thursday she ended up having a cluster, so she went into a fit, came out then seconds later fitted again she did it a fair number of times, in the fourth i called for an ambulance.
She got taken to our local A+E where she was given anti convulsive s and was stabilised before being admitted to a ward. She had been there till yesterday Wednesday where she was diagnosed with Non-Epileptic Seizures. This means we have to try and essentially work out what her trigger is without any treatment, fun times.
So as stated above im now her carer which is great because im basically paid to hang out with my GF all day but the problem is, you dont get alot of dosh for being a carer, its enough for us to get by thats not a worry but it means i wont be getting any more Art done in the foreseeable future or buying new games to play and what not, so its not likly any new Von or Celcius stuff will be done outside of writing.
This does lead to the fact that ive not been around online as much as before (i doubt anyone noticed) my gf's ex spent ALL his time on his PC and essentially ignored her for the last couple years of their ten year relationship, so im worried if i use my computer she will feel the same way which wouldn't be my intention at all, but this does mean im not comfy being on my PC just in case, i do have a laptop which is what im on now it cant really play anything but its good enough to be on discord watch twitch and what not and im hoping to somehow afford a laptop that can play games as that would help with issues like Space, if i wanna set up my PC i have to use the dining table but we often use the table for when my daughters come round so i have to pack it back up again, ive not bothered setting it back up now.
So ya lots of big changes going on. There is some other stuff but i think ive typed enough and id be surprised if anyone even reads the journal let alone got this far but ya thats whats going on in my life.
However my gf has a few physical problems that make her less then fully mobile, Hip impingement in both hips and hip displasia in one so she lives in perpetual pain. Me and her were thinking it might be worth me leaving my job to become her carer until the operations and all the other stuff she needs have been completed and she gets her mobility back. However she started to have what we can only guess are absence seizures, basically its like she zones out and isnt fully aware of whats going on, could say shes buffering or trying to find connection.
She had one of these in the shower and had i not been there she would of fallen, i took a few days off work as these seemed to become more frequent and it was decided that i will become her carer earlier then planned. Last Sunday however the Siezures became physical, shes started to have actual Fits but it was one then she would be okay for a few hours then another. On Thursday she ended up having a cluster, so she went into a fit, came out then seconds later fitted again she did it a fair number of times, in the fourth i called for an ambulance.
She got taken to our local A+E where she was given anti convulsive s and was stabilised before being admitted to a ward. She had been there till yesterday Wednesday where she was diagnosed with Non-Epileptic Seizures. This means we have to try and essentially work out what her trigger is without any treatment, fun times.
So as stated above im now her carer which is great because im basically paid to hang out with my GF all day but the problem is, you dont get alot of dosh for being a carer, its enough for us to get by thats not a worry but it means i wont be getting any more Art done in the foreseeable future or buying new games to play and what not, so its not likly any new Von or Celcius stuff will be done outside of writing.
This does lead to the fact that ive not been around online as much as before (i doubt anyone noticed) my gf's ex spent ALL his time on his PC and essentially ignored her for the last couple years of their ten year relationship, so im worried if i use my computer she will feel the same way which wouldn't be my intention at all, but this does mean im not comfy being on my PC just in case, i do have a laptop which is what im on now it cant really play anything but its good enough to be on discord watch twitch and what not and im hoping to somehow afford a laptop that can play games as that would help with issues like Space, if i wanna set up my PC i have to use the dining table but we often use the table for when my daughters come round so i have to pack it back up again, ive not bothered setting it back up now.
So ya lots of big changes going on. There is some other stuff but i think ive typed enough and id be surprised if anyone even reads the journal let alone got this far but ya thats whats going on in my life.
