I'm able to sleep in chastity
    7 years ago
            I still have about a month left in chastity before I'm allowed out and able to cum again. I was supposed to be let out at the end of this month, but a couple of mistakes extended it by 16 days. These last two days though I've been in my cage 100% of the time. I've slept in it two nights in a row and it's been relatively great. The first night was perfect and I had no problems, last night I woke up at 5am with a painful erection, but after a while it past and I was able to get back to sleep. I've been wearing my cage all day long today too and I'm about to wear it for a third night in a row.
I'm really glad to be able to wear it the way it was meant to be worn. It's reduced the hassle of my morning routine and has made the cage and what it's doing to me just feel more meaningful in general. In addition to my chastity this month I have to bind myself before bed each night. Nothing two crazy, just some cuffs on my wrists and ankles with loose ropes that let me rest how I need to, but short enough that I'm reminded of my binds if I try and move a bit too much. My arms are linked to the same rope as well, if I move one hand down, the other must go to the head of the bed so I can't always sleep exactly how I would like. When I wake up in the mornings I have to unbind myself and press a vibrator to my cage for 5 minutes, then I have to wait 10 minutes before I can do it again. I have to do this a total of 4 times, so 1 hour. I'm not allowed to cum so I have to pull the vibrator away when I get close; this exercise is to make me nice and horny so by the end of my chastity I'm begging to cum.
Barring no more mistakes my chastity will end while I'm meeting with a friend, and this friend also happens to be my keyholder. For two weeks he's going to bind me up and tease me however he pleases and the best part is I'll have no say in the matter. I rarely get to be tied up by someone other than myself and it's exciting to be put in binds I cannot escape from on my own. I'll be tied down with metal chains that are locked with padlocks, gagged with my own panties that are soaked with my pre, blindfolded and forced to listen to girls moaning as I sit in the dark barely able to move. My clit will be locked up in its cage, barely able to reach a vibrator if I stretch hard enough. I'll hopelessly hump the air, but all I'll manage to do is make a puddle on the floor.
                    I'm really glad to be able to wear it the way it was meant to be worn. It's reduced the hassle of my morning routine and has made the cage and what it's doing to me just feel more meaningful in general. In addition to my chastity this month I have to bind myself before bed each night. Nothing two crazy, just some cuffs on my wrists and ankles with loose ropes that let me rest how I need to, but short enough that I'm reminded of my binds if I try and move a bit too much. My arms are linked to the same rope as well, if I move one hand down, the other must go to the head of the bed so I can't always sleep exactly how I would like. When I wake up in the mornings I have to unbind myself and press a vibrator to my cage for 5 minutes, then I have to wait 10 minutes before I can do it again. I have to do this a total of 4 times, so 1 hour. I'm not allowed to cum so I have to pull the vibrator away when I get close; this exercise is to make me nice and horny so by the end of my chastity I'm begging to cum.
Barring no more mistakes my chastity will end while I'm meeting with a friend, and this friend also happens to be my keyholder. For two weeks he's going to bind me up and tease me however he pleases and the best part is I'll have no say in the matter. I rarely get to be tied up by someone other than myself and it's exciting to be put in binds I cannot escape from on my own. I'll be tied down with metal chains that are locked with padlocks, gagged with my own panties that are soaked with my pre, blindfolded and forced to listen to girls moaning as I sit in the dark barely able to move. My clit will be locked up in its cage, barely able to reach a vibrator if I stretch hard enough. I'll hopelessly hump the air, but all I'll manage to do is make a puddle on the floor.
 
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Sounds like you're living the life~
For four years I was placed in chastity (each session lasted for a few months) and like you, I didn't have a cage. Very quickly though, actually within the first two weeks of those four years, I wasn't allowed to touch myself anymore. That would be my advice to you, don't touch yourself anymore unless you're ordered to or allowed to cum. After a while it'll get easier to do and eventually it'll just be normal and the thought of touching yourself wont even cross your mind. Your urges will keep building though so in time they'll get worse, but you're already speeding up that process yourself anyway. It's a lot easier and you can go for a lot longer in chastity if you can keep your hands off.
You should talk to your master about it, they might enjoy taking away your ability to simply touch yourself~ (For showers just do as I did, get clean and nothing more, you'll have to touch yourself to get clean, but you can easily do that without feeling much if any pleasure.)
The cage sure is fun and I've enjoyed it a lot, but staying faithful without having a cage means you're obeying under your own willpower, and that's a powerful thing not everyone can do. Take the lessons you're learning in chastity and apply them to your life as well: You have the determination to do great things if you just put your mind to them, you have amazing patience, self-control, and the ability to follow orders to the letter. Being a pet has taught me a great deal about life and how I need to move forward, I mostly want to thank my master for that. Hopefully you can use your chastity in a similar way too~
Oh and I doubt I'm going to be allowed to get something as generous as prostate stimulation, if anything I'll probably have a vibrator attached to my cage and set super low for a few hours to see if I get to cum.
I haven't really had the temptation to unlock my cage and cum. I don't know maybe the four years of chastity kind of broke me a bit, I have urges and really want to fool around sometimes, but I haven't had a problem with fighting the urge to grab my key and let myself out. Which I can easily do, and I've had to take it off a couple times because a ball would slip out, but I'd lock things back up right after. I also took it off before bed last night and slept without it. Only to ensure that everything was okay down there, I've never worn a cage this long without taking it off before so I thought it would be good to check up on things.
While I like emlalock and the joy I had letting people increase my time, I found it to be kind of a hassle to keep up with. I'm glad I'm able to trust myself, though of course, I wish I knew someone nearby to hold my key for me, but sadly I don't.
oh, i managed to edge to a few drips of cum this morning, possibly a little stimulation away from a ruined orgasm. then i gave in to the pressure and just finished up properly. i was hoping to make it a week...
when i lock, its for the night. i tend to do most of the work in the evenings and mornings, evenings because it somehow helps me to fall asleep(even though it also makes it infinitely harder to have a p-gasm by draining everything out) and mornings because getting clean in the shower.
I'm a grower too, I'm wearing the smallest tube Holy Trainer has to offer and it's still too long. Like you I am about 2 inches when I'm soft and I would really benefit from a cage that's 2/3 or 1/2 as long. I don't slip out though really, everything is secure. But it happens when my leg presses into my balls. The Holy Trainer brings them forward and wedges them between the ring and the tube, but when my leg presses against it one of my testicles can just slip right out. I open the cage to fix it, but I lock it right back up again.
The other night I even slept with it off, I woke up so hard and needy, but I just ignored it and put my cage back on when it got small again. There wasn't one moment where I felt like I had to touch myself even though I kept feeling the need when my clit would bounce around and accidentally touch something. the simple solution is to just not touch. Also work on doing something else rather than writhing around thinking about your clit all day, that'll take your mind off of it. You wouldn't feel pleasure, but that's the point, we give pleasure, not receive it.
by the way, i'm on emlalock on the same username as here.
I don't fall out of this cage ever. I did one time, but I got myself so worked up and I leaked so much inside my cage, it made my clit extremely slick and it came out that way. But that was one time and it took a good portion of the day to get to that point. My leg will sometimes push a ball through the ring when I lay on my side, but now that I'm aware of that possibility I've been able to avoid it for several days now with no issues. This cage is not 100% secure, only a PA or a cage that gets strapped around the waist would be fully secure and even then there's always ways to get the key.
The best thing you can do is concentrate on your self-control, like I said before, I went 4 years without a cage and my chastity went fine. The hardest part is starting and you'll feel like you're going crazy at times, but keep at it. Go for small goals at first like you are now, my first time was just a week, then two, then a month, then two months. I mostly stayed around 3 months, but I believe I've gone longer. It did help to have a master give me orders, but that master doesn't even live in the same state as me, we went by trust and I did my best to be as honest as possible about everything. I followed all orders and if I slipped up I didn't hide it and I took the punishments.
I don't know if this will work for you, but it has for me. Whenever I have touched and I knew I wasn't supposed to, I told myself to stop, and you've just gotta stop before you do any more. Whenever it got to that point for me though I knew I was on a slippery slope and usually after touching one time my brain will rationalize a reason to do it again, and again and again until I accidentally came. I know how the mind plays tricks on you to make touching yourself seem okay, but you've got to snap out of it and just stop. There's no easy way to do chastity. It will get easier over time though if you can start setting and reaching those goals I mentioned.
I know it's hard to change that mindset. The first few months I felt like I was losing my mind when my master said no more touching. Now a month or two or three of chastity feels like nothing to me. I don't mean the time just flies by or anything, I mean it actually feels like nothing. I have no urge or feel any need to touch, I'm just going to sleep and wake up and have a normal day and not feel the desire for anything sexual at all.
Oops I forgot to switch to my other account :p I'm more active on this account though so I can reply quicker.