Cancer Update. So hard to stay strong
7 years ago
Things got worse. For those that don't know. In April, after waiting 3 YEARS!!!!! my mother was going to have a much needed operation. They discovered an extremely rare cancer instead. Stage 4. And it has spread to 3 different areas. She has been taking Chemo since then. And it seemed like it was doing well.
We fought and stayed strong. My entire family thought I would be hit the hardest. And I was. But I stayed strong. Stronger then my entire family combined. But yesterday, I shattered. I just completely broke down when something horrible happened to my mom.
The last couple days she was complaining about a head ache. And while I was helping her. She had a seizure right in front of me. I got my father and by then, she was out of it. I broke down. I was shaking, crying, everything. We forced my mother to the ER and they did an X-Ray and MRI. At first we were told there was swelling. Then they saw from the MRI 3 spots. Which they couldn't tell until today...... The cancer spread. Though it's small, the cancer spread to 3 parts of the right side of her brain.
I"m trying everything I can to stay strong for her. But I feel I'm getting to my limit. I already broke down so many times today. I don't know what I can do. I guess, please pray for her. Try to help cheer me up. Anything
We fought and stayed strong. My entire family thought I would be hit the hardest. And I was. But I stayed strong. Stronger then my entire family combined. But yesterday, I shattered. I just completely broke down when something horrible happened to my mom.
The last couple days she was complaining about a head ache. And while I was helping her. She had a seizure right in front of me. I got my father and by then, she was out of it. I broke down. I was shaking, crying, everything. We forced my mother to the ER and they did an X-Ray and MRI. At first we were told there was swelling. Then they saw from the MRI 3 spots. Which they couldn't tell until today...... The cancer spread. Though it's small, the cancer spread to 3 parts of the right side of her brain.
I"m trying everything I can to stay strong for her. But I feel I'm getting to my limit. I already broke down so many times today. I don't know what I can do. I guess, please pray for her. Try to help cheer me up. Anything
*hugs*
You're not alone tho. A few years ago my gran died from lung cancer. It's heart breaking but you'll feel better knowing you were by her side
I'm going to be for you everytime you need me, i'm goign to show support for you, to lift you up. to give you all the care i have for you. I'm here, man. I am here for you.
You're strong! But don't bottle up your emotions too much.