So it anyones been paying attention in the past year, you’d know that there’s been a nonstop back and forth fight between me and my ex husband. As of a couple days ago things finally came to an end with a solution no one really wanted but it was the only choice, and I’ve been debating even talking about this because of how much actually went on. But I really need to say it to make sure everyone knows that there isn’t a place for pointing fingers.

Basically, as the title of this says, there is no bad guy in the situation, despite how I felt and how I handled things, chris isn’t a bad person, he just... it’s hard to explain. He wants to be happy and not fight but like myself, he doesn’t really handle things that proper. We both screwed up trying to figure this out. I’m guilty of it as much as him, and we both caused this. I tried to hard to prove a point to him, and he tried to hard to make me look bad, we both screwed up.

My son said it best on chris’s Goodbye journal on Inkbunny, no one wanted it to end with him leaving inkbunny, but it became to much from both sides that finally a third party, mine and Chris’s son, had to step in an ultimately say what needed to be said. I won’t say who’s side our son chose because that’ll cause to much trouble, but both my sons made it sound like they know chris has changed but hope he’d go back to what he used to be like

Now, I’m gonna say this plainly, don’t hate chris just for what I’ve shown, everything I’ve shown is just a part of chris. Back then he used to be really shy, and caring, but recently he’s become something I can’t really relate to. He has an image of a ‘bad boy’ type and honestly that’s not something I can be angry at, sometimes people change because they feel comfortable like that.

So please, don’t think chris is something awful just because of my opinion, there are aspects of chris that are still good, and I want people to hopefully accept that before they decide to blindly follow me in what I say. Chris may not be something I agree with, but you might like him.

John said it best on inkbunny, there may be a time we can actually forgive chris for what had happened, and one day work it out. It might take years, but that’s something only time can tell. But don’t think chris is someone to just avoid because of how he acted to me, he probably won’t act the same to you.

There was no bad guy in the situation, just two bull headed people who tried being right. At this point, whatever happens happens, but don’t go hating chris just because of me. My upset and frustrated actions are solely because our marriage ended on bad terms, and they shouldn’t have, so please, don’t take my word for gospel, base your own opinion of him from what you see from him. Because I don’t want to be the cause of someone’s life getting ruined, he deserves a change even if he hurt me, he didn't hurt everyone else

Chris, if you read this, I hope things go well for you. We may never speak again, but I at least wish you a happy life. We made our choices and now it’s time to rebuild our lives without one another. The years were fun, but it just couldn’t work. Good luck to you.