Leaving The Furry Community
7 years ago
At some point when something makes you miserable for long enough you have to stop doing it. That's really all there is to it.
I'm "leaving the community". I can't say I know the extent of what that means at the moment. What I do know it means is that I won't be using FA anymore, though I barely used it to begin with. But I'm not going to be checking notes and things from now on. If you really want to get a hold of me, you can join my discord server. https://discord.gg/dvBcpY9
I'll be making a video before too long. In the meantime, here are the answers to some questions I know I'll be asked.
- No, it's not specifically about Kero. I've been disgusted with aspects of the community for years, and the Kero thing was more like the final straw, if anything.
- I'll still be using my dragon as my avatar for things. It's just going to be less "furry". When people see the avatar I want them to think "dragon", not "furry".
- Overall my videos will be the same, just less furry-centric topics.
- I don't suddenly hate you now. Being a furry has about as much bearing on if I like you as if you are into anime. What I don't want to do is hang out in furry chatrooms, go to furry conventions, or be in any sort of group setting with a bunch of furs.
I'm still the same person. I just don't want to be involved with the community anymore.
I'm "leaving the community". I can't say I know the extent of what that means at the moment. What I do know it means is that I won't be using FA anymore, though I barely used it to begin with. But I'm not going to be checking notes and things from now on. If you really want to get a hold of me, you can join my discord server. https://discord.gg/dvBcpY9
I'll be making a video before too long. In the meantime, here are the answers to some questions I know I'll be asked.
- No, it's not specifically about Kero. I've been disgusted with aspects of the community for years, and the Kero thing was more like the final straw, if anything.
- I'll still be using my dragon as my avatar for things. It's just going to be less "furry". When people see the avatar I want them to think "dragon", not "furry".
- Overall my videos will be the same, just less furry-centric topics.
- I don't suddenly hate you now. Being a furry has about as much bearing on if I like you as if you are into anime. What I don't want to do is hang out in furry chatrooms, go to furry conventions, or be in any sort of group setting with a bunch of furs.
I'm still the same person. I just don't want to be involved with the community anymore.
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I do respect your decision and wish you the best of luck in the future.
Let's play Armello sometime~?
Good luck with your life.... and in a small twist of your usual outro line on youtube
Have a Rawrnderful Life.
fair. very very fair.
in the community.
If you want a reality check... here it is.
Dictators aren’t leaders, they’re deranged psychopaths wearing a disguise to fit in.
Serial killers aren’t ordinary citizens, they’re deranged psychopaths wearing a disguise to fit in.
People who torture and have sex with animals, trick children, and use assassination tactics of sanity to sway you aren’t furries. They’re fucking psychopaths wearing a disguise to fit in.
What you talk about on the extreme side of things accounts for so little you allow it to cloud what good there is. My experiences in the furry fandom have been, for the most part, very pleasant and I know a lot of great people. I’ve known and met a lot shit people... but fuck them. I don’t let them or the transgressions of others have such a bearing on me because it doesn’t fucking matter.
But I’ll get off my soap box and let you get back to your program. I’m not going to try convince you to stay or anything, that would be retarded. I’ll close by saying this, people suck and they act in reviling and repugnant ways and there’s not a god damn thing we can do about it. If you want to save yourself some sanity in the long run, just let go. Stop caring what horrible things people do because if it’s the furry fandom because of dog fuckers today, what will it be tomorrow?
You cannot continue to live in the dark about the problems within the furry community and just pretend it is all happy times, community should try to make more of an effort to deject our pedos and animal rapists from the fandom instead of tolerating them
It isn't an extream to say 'fucking dogs and kids isn't a good thing'
this fandom is pretty dead, no more creativity or inspiration, just habitual fetish art and discussions over and over and over
And I personally see a different fandom. I love my friends, I love the groups I am close with, and I have fun. All this other shit doesn’t ruin it for me. That’d be like me quitting going out on weekends because I’m so fed up with shootings. It doesn’t change anything. I can still object to killing because it’s wrong, but I’m not going to allow the negative things that come with being human barre me from doing what I enjoy.
its better for one to focus on the people they know and interact with, all of us small niche circles and clicks, but i think the point stands that overall, the fandom and whatever it used to represent is dead and replaced with unyielding degeneracy because people cannot handle having nice things, they will ruin it.
I miss the furry trolls, we used to not take ourselves so seriously and would tease each other before the over sensitivity hugbox took over
Even in the video, we can't live enterly in out escapists fantasies, it is good once in a while, but we should come to terms that the place and community we take part in if we need to do things ourselves to either fix it or divorce ourselves from it because of things the very much conflict with one's morals, like sex with puppers.
I aint going to tell you how to live your life because I don't have the answers but something is wrong
Dude yeah, it's so incredibly superficial and you can tell that the whole time.
The sort of defeatist attitude you're displaying here is exactly what has enabled so many SJWs to hijack the fandom in the first place. The fact that not enough people are willing to hold others in the fandom accountable for their misdeeds has only let the worst behavior continue to thrive and ruin the community's reputation. Intolerance, when left alone, is only going to breed further if left unchecked.
People like me still support the furry community because there are still civil people within it who don't deserve the bad press, and you've always been one of those exceptional people who has helped give other furries hope when it looked like no one else was willing to speak up. If you want things to get better, be the difference you want to see. Raise the fandom's social standards so we don't attract the destructive behavior you mention in the first place. Ultimately, I can't tell you what to do, as it's solely your decision to make whether you stay in the fandom or not, but I firmly believe that abandoning your passion simply because you've allowed a few bad people ruin it for you is not a winning attitude to have.
I know several popufurs that do this. One of them is using this video to his advantage by trying to say hes a victim when in fact he is part of the problem.
Makes sense to me. Thanks for throwing the entire fandom under the bus because a couple bad apples ruined it for you.
Just when the community started having a positive public appearance You, Dis. Wolf, and other big YouTubers shine the spotlight on Mental Wack jobs like Karu, and lunatics like the ones that harassed Wolf.
Yes, those guys are both disgusting and need professional mental help, but don't label those idiots with the sane bunch of us that just like the Concept the Fandom stood for.
If you wanted out, fine no problem. If you were harassed in someway, that's horrible and you should report whoever did it to you.
You wanna label the entire fandom as animal rapists and pedophiles, screw you. Thanks for sending us back to the early 2000's.
Thanks for hurting the community
You lost my subscription
Said like a real long time furry.
Thanks for your two cents, we'll pay the thousands more when the antifurs arrive.
But, I do agree with you on one thing
The oversensetivity of the fandom. Just let us right wing furs say what we want. I thought this fandom was a place of love and acceptance for all, including people with controversial opinions. Wanna hear a joke? What do you call a black mom pregnant with a white kiddo? A kinder surprise. Now, are you offended? Good, your right to be. Now, are you gonna humor-police me for making a joke you didn't like? If so, Kothorix and I both don't like you. Are you gonna say "Well, I didn't like the joke. Personally it was kinda shitty"? If so, then I like and respect you.
Its a shame hes using you as a personal excuse to make his cringy attitude "acceptable"
I have to agree on the pedophilia part, I've noticed it myself by non-targetted observation... One of the thing sis: There's just way too much porn being made featuring popular SFW characters... nearly all made by furries. You can't take a history free and cookies free browser and google e.g. Toothless or Judy Hopps without getting way too many porn images among the top search results... This doesn't only increade the "furries are all about porn" opionion, but also it gives impression of furries luring minors into the porn by using family-friendly characters, like Toothles, Judy Hopps, Spyro, etc. in LOADS of porn being made... and I'm afraid at least some of those are beign produced exactly to lure minors into the subculture...
I know a furry, who joined FA when he was like 14 or sth, and was exposed to furry porn, community, and RPs so much it actually changed him, his sexuality, and made him treat relationships much more lightly than before... and many of those people who RPed sex with him knew he was a minor. I'm not sure how exactly did he discover the community though.
Recently, I discovered another furry, who's in his mid 20s, draw lots of porn for a 15-year-old (while being aware of said minor's age)... also infulencing the minor's sexuality and relationship views...
Now I've only seen another confirmation of my observation-based conclusions.
Just my two cents on this part of the topic.
I probably didn't experience anything direct here because when I joined the site I was an adult already, shared this account with my boyfriend and been always pretty firm on who I am and what I'm not okay with. Still, a few creepy comments happened anyway... I don't think I've ever been a promising potential target because of all that. But ye, I witnessed certain things... despite not exploring the community for that long.
Though I recall facing most of the other issues mentioned in the vid a few years back, ofc in their versions of the time.
I realised I don't belong with furries within the first 2 years of using FA and I'm openly stating I'm not a furry since, and still re-confirming myself against being one. On FA, I'm just keeping it to my own gallery and audience. Though I admit I've been trying to understand what Furries actually are for years, and I agree with your vid's last statement... it's NOT simply "fans of anthro animals", though I had that conclusion from different clues, and not necessarily sex-related.
I'm all for returing anthro animals back to the general human culture and I'm against shoving all anthro animals into one, young subculture (regardless if said suculture has issues or not), it's just illogical to do so to a phenomenon as old as history. Furries are a specific community and they have always been, and it's by no means limited to simply enjoying anthors... I kept saying that long before, and I am keeing to say that now. The mere fact you or I aren't furries only confirms that nobody can make anyone be a furry regardless how much of a common interest you share with them...
Here's what i think on the other topics
kids asking you to RP? Block them
Popularity who need that?
High-school mindset and people quilting after the 30? I don't know what he was talking about but i know furs that are more older than that.
don't like hugs and people trying to make the world a more Happy place? Understandable
Politics? It was a part of this fandom since the first years, the story is set to repeat itself, in the 90 we had CF8 and burnedfur, like in the New 10 we had Rainfurrest and furry raiders