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A Rant.
7 years ago
This is exactly as the title suggests. EXACTLY. And it's just damn drama.
So. In 4 days it will have been a year since I split things off with my ex. Many will know whom this is. Some may not. I'm not going to name names.
But here's my rant.
I'm sick and tired of being accused of cheating. Fucking sick of it. I don't cheat. I never have. I find it's a terrible fucking thing. But apparently I did it, according to this particular ex.
You would figure after a few months, and ex would stop posting subtle things about you, or straight out stop calling you out on things on social media. But Nah, this one goes on like a bad train wreck. Literally no one can look away due to this. It's rather sad and disgusting if you ask me.
I gave literally everything, like I always do in every relationship. But when someone wears you down. Blames you for every small thing. Makes you cry everyday IN FRONT OF THEM because of one thing or another. Contact you only after an hour of hanging with friends asking "when you were coming home then proceed to make you cry confront of your friends (all of them have seen this). And to put to cherry on top, talk to your mother in such a disgusting way that you have finally had brought of them to gather the balls to break up with them, even though you fear they were going to hurt you or themself. YOU STILL BLAME ME FOR CHEATING?! FUCK you man. Get a damn life.
Also. To add. This idiot wanted me to only rely on him. Solely him.
Wanted me to stop asking my mom for help on things when I simply had a question. Starring and I fucking quote! "You can't keep running to your mom. You need to grow up"
No no. THAT'S WHAT FAMILY IS FOR. Just because your fam is janky af does not mean that I need to break off with mine.
And friends. Seeing them was a hassle and a half. He was ALWAYS invited to come along. He just didn't want to. He wanted to stay home and then call me to make me cry.
The fucking dude is toxic and I'm tired of being quiet. I'm tired of his cronies feeding off his damn lies. This fucking twat harassed me for 3 months after we split. Harassed is not used lightly. I had to block him on everything so that I could think and breath and go into work without being a mess.
My current bf knows what kind of damaged I am. He's helping me be a better me. Bless his damn heart. He's the best one and my dad actually likes him. Not once have I heard "You'll do better on the next one" which he said jokingly about most of my bfs but I knew he actually ment it.
Anyways. I might be done ranting for now. Might pop up more later. Idk. But if he happens to read this. Good, go fuck yourself. I'm sick of your shit man. Get a god damn life. PS, I've been told about your whiney fb video. Be happy to know I'll never look at it. Got a small play by play. All I needed to know how pathetic you are. 👍
So. In 4 days it will have been a year since I split things off with my ex. Many will know whom this is. Some may not. I'm not going to name names.
But here's my rant.
I'm sick and tired of being accused of cheating. Fucking sick of it. I don't cheat. I never have. I find it's a terrible fucking thing. But apparently I did it, according to this particular ex.
You would figure after a few months, and ex would stop posting subtle things about you, or straight out stop calling you out on things on social media. But Nah, this one goes on like a bad train wreck. Literally no one can look away due to this. It's rather sad and disgusting if you ask me.
I gave literally everything, like I always do in every relationship. But when someone wears you down. Blames you for every small thing. Makes you cry everyday IN FRONT OF THEM because of one thing or another. Contact you only after an hour of hanging with friends asking "when you were coming home then proceed to make you cry confront of your friends (all of them have seen this). And to put to cherry on top, talk to your mother in such a disgusting way that you have finally had brought of them to gather the balls to break up with them, even though you fear they were going to hurt you or themself. YOU STILL BLAME ME FOR CHEATING?! FUCK you man. Get a damn life.
Also. To add. This idiot wanted me to only rely on him. Solely him.
Wanted me to stop asking my mom for help on things when I simply had a question. Starring and I fucking quote! "You can't keep running to your mom. You need to grow up"
No no. THAT'S WHAT FAMILY IS FOR. Just because your fam is janky af does not mean that I need to break off with mine.
And friends. Seeing them was a hassle and a half. He was ALWAYS invited to come along. He just didn't want to. He wanted to stay home and then call me to make me cry.
The fucking dude is toxic and I'm tired of being quiet. I'm tired of his cronies feeding off his damn lies. This fucking twat harassed me for 3 months after we split. Harassed is not used lightly. I had to block him on everything so that I could think and breath and go into work without being a mess.
My current bf knows what kind of damaged I am. He's helping me be a better me. Bless his damn heart. He's the best one and my dad actually likes him. Not once have I heard "You'll do better on the next one" which he said jokingly about most of my bfs but I knew he actually ment it.
Anyways. I might be done ranting for now. Might pop up more later. Idk. But if he happens to read this. Good, go fuck yourself. I'm sick of your shit man. Get a god damn life. PS, I've been told about your whiney fb video. Be happy to know I'll never look at it. Got a small play by play. All I needed to know how pathetic you are. 👍
The amount of debt this pleb has put me in. IT'S FUCKING DISGUSTING.
SO being the kind person I am, got this assfuck a phone plan ON MY VISA CARD. Disregarding all the earnings my family gave me, I did it.
6 months or some shit after our relationship, I didn't want to pay it anymore. Got tired of seeing his name sending me money. Yeah he still paged for it. Until he didn't.
My card expired and I needed to get a new one. I sadly forgot that I needed to change everything that was attached to the card. It happens. But I got no email from the ex saying "I'm trying text saying the payments aren't going in, did something change?" Nothing. He just let it rack up to about 3 or so hundred. So, I asked my bf to email him for the phone back so I could sell it can get some money to pay off his debt. That's didn't go well. At all.
So I had to call the cancel. Cost me about 2000$ to do so. Why? It was a phone you had to pay for as you used it. 0 down when ya buy it sort of thing. And it wasn't fully paid for yet. Plus the tax. Plus the bill he racked up. So that came all out of my pocket.
He's sum. Just scum
My pet rats. May they all rest in peace. I loved those girls. To the damn moon and back. Guess who never came with me to put ANY of them down. That's right, him.
Was too hard for him. And I wasn't for me?! I stayed for the whole thing. I did all 5 girls. I was even kind enough to let him know when his heart rat passed on, who got fucked up by an ear infection. I even bought her medication that cost me 200+ that I could afford. But wanted to give her a chance.
And what does this scum do when I was on my last baby girl? Post about how after him being gone for 5 minuets the that I just let them die.
That I didn't care for them.
Here's some fucking facts you waste of breath:
1: They were all 2 and had mamery tumors. FEMALES DON'T LIVE THAT LONG DUE TO FUCKING MAMERY TUMORS!
2: I gave you a chance to take them. You didn't want them, why? Because you couldn't afford them. WHY? Because buying crap was more important to you then the lives of these beautiful girls.
I cared for them. I loved them. I stuck with them to the end. You didn't do shit. Jack fucking shit for them.
So suck a fat one. After I dumped your ads they were no longer yours AT ALL
Like how they guy acts like such a fucking victim. Like I've been harassing him all year and got my friends in on it to attack him aswell or some shit.
Let me drop the facts on that right now. We didn't break up nice because he made it hard. He kept me up all night, refused to let me sleep because he couldn't. Blamed me for the whole thing.
Then, for 3 months afterwards, harassed me. Called me all the time, text me. Made me feel like a sack of shit because I was tired of his. Continuously told me it was my fault and I should feel bad.
I wanted to try and be friends with the dude. I did. He didn't give the space I asked for. And even after blocking him on everything to try and get a break from the constant harassing, he got his friends on me. Andi told them that if it continued I would be getting a restraining order.
Most contact stopped.
But he continues to spread bs lie about me to make himself feel better.
As for me sending my friends after him. Well that's bull too. He posts shit publicly for all to see, if they don't like it, they'll let him know. I don't send people after anyone. They have their own minds. I'm no puppet master as he might seem to think I am.
I have 0 control over what my friends say or do. And I have no want to stop them from speaking their mind when someone posts public lies :D
Now. You all may be thinking "why come out about this shit now?? It's been about a year and you should just leave it"
And you're right. I should. But the thing is, I'm tired of being lied about. And I know my true friends won't and don't believe his shit. But apparently he wants to lay some sort of legal actions on me for something. I don't know what. Could be this, could be my friend calling him a Creep on Furzu. Could be a number of things.
And although I'm posative the cops won't do jack, here's some things I do know in case shit goes down:
- my father in law is a lawer
-i have a friend who works for the police
- I have every screen shit of him harassing me; both publicly and I believe I have some text
- I have SEVERAL eye witnesses to his toxic abusive controlling behaviour while we were dating and breaking up
I have a case. He does not. He has a pocket full of lies he won't get far with.
And maybe if you don't like what people say about you publicly, perhaps you should stop doing it yourself. It's called karma. This is what your foot tastes like. Enjoy it bub.
I wanna continue this with talking about the projecting he does.
Every little thing that he did to me, would always someone get thrown around that I did it to him. The hurting and the being broken, he was already like that. But he damaged me pretty damn well. Like fuck dude. I literally apologize and cry about the stupidest shit to my Boyfriend. The poor guy has to tell me he forgives me before I actually stop. Even then I still apologize.
Not that I never apologize for everything already. But it's just gotten worse.
I got it drilled in my head that everything I did, NO MATTER WHAT, was wrong. Like legit. And if I defended myself on the situation, it became about him. Everything was literally always about him.
He's an egotistical self absorbed lazy sob.
And I feel sorry for the people who believe his horse shit. He told me so many times he doesn't care about the "friends online". They only talk to him when he sad and never have conversations with him. Or go visit him. His words "their not real friends"
The guy has no one and he still pushes people away who try. It's revolting, they they just soak up all his bs and feed it back to him like it's truth.
I think my favourite thing I heard, and I can't remember the source. But I apparently used him as a rebound/ crutch for after I was raped.
Now. I know that's a good full load of heaping shit, because I still went through all that by myself. ACTUALLY! My bff at this time and my now BF went with me to the police station to get that worked out.
Man he really never went anywhere with me.
The vet for the rats
Police station for my rape case.
Some other important ones that I'd Like to point out.
My grandfather's funeral. He went to non of the visitations. Didn't give any condolences to my family. Your SO is supposed to be there for you.
My cousins wedding is another one. Well, he went to the wedding, but had be drive him home after because he didn't want to stick around for the reception.
There were other weddings and Stag and Does he didn't come with me to. Yknow, NORMAL partner obligations. He just stayed in the basement and rotted.
Yup.
I should stop adding to this after this. I might have it all out of my system. But who knows, I could add more. We just won't know.
I currently want to add more. I mean, I feel like there is so much more to say about this person and how much they have hurt me.
My wallet
My heart
My mind
It's just really hard to not sounds like a broken record at this point.
I guess I could give a warning Like, this person only seems nice. They put on this mask that has a smile and helps speak sweet words. In reality, its the opposite. The dude it toxic, egotistical, and selfish. Believes the world owes him something when he's never really worked for anything. It's all half added. And when he's had enough. He just gives up. 110% gives up. And complains.
There. That's it. Hopefully after today I'll stop adding to this. 👍