Aww, man. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I only went through one break-up and it was a divorce after a 10-ish year long relationship. It was hard and it takes a lot of time to get past it. Just cry when you need to and don't be ashamed to be sad right now. A lot of things are going to remind you of this person and that's going to hurt. The only real cure is time and right now everything is brand new. Just be kind to yourself, try not to judge yourself or dwell too much on the past. If you have any local friends that aren't involved in this or who are taking sides (unless they take your side), go spend some time with them. And if you want to talk, I'm slow to reply sometimes but you can always send me an email at confiscatedretinaATgmailDOTcom Hang in there. If nothing else, you have a therapy appointment coming up and that will help, too. *hugs*

First of all, I just wanted to say I really appreciate the comment and the support. <3
Maybe it will sound weird, but it wasn't even a ""bad"" breakup, as in, it was something both were discussing (even if at different times). Long story short, I found out I was asexual (along with body dysphoria) while they aren't. It's really something out of our control and that I happen to find out much later in our relationship. I just knew it wasn't fair that I couldn't satisfy my partner (they were super respectful, never tried to impose themselves).

We also decided to remain friends as before we even got together, they were my best friend, but right now both of us are taking a pause from talking to "assimilate" the changes. Iy's hard because I am costantly tempted to get back in touch but I know the best thing to do is wait for now.

Ah I just feel as if I'd be emotionally draining if I asked for constant help. :X
I will remember you offered me help tho and keep that in mind, so thank you again! <:3

It sounds like you guys have both made a decision that's good for you right now, even if it hurts. It'll get easier in time and you'll be able to talk again.

Hah, being asexual myself (and transgender), I got a divorce for some of the same reasons (and several more). I think you've made a good decision in doing this now instead of much later. I hope everything turns out okay for both of you.

No worries! I only answer stuff when I have the energy to do so, I know my own limits pretty well now. XD So if you do need to talk to someone, feel free to and I'll reply when I'm able to (it might take awhile and it might not; I'm kinda riding the horrible life roller coaster still).