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Are there any fetishes you just don't "get"?
6 years ago
╭━━━━━━━━━━━━━*✲ﾟ*｡✧٩(･ิᴗ･ิ๑)۶*✲ﾟ*｡✧━━━━━━━━━━━━━╮ Here's a question - are there any fetishes, among those you commonly see on FA and other places, that you just don't "get"?
I want to be extremely clear - this is not an opportunity to suggest which fetishes squick you out, or that you find problematic. I think we all have our kinks, and complaining at other people about theirs in a place like FurAffinity isn't just "pot calling kettle black" so much as "the pot, itself black, in a black-painted room, consisting solely of black objects, black walls, floor and ceiling, in a black-painted house in the centre of a black-painted neighbourhood during a solar eclipse".
Still, I'm curious if there are any fetishes you don't so much dislike; rather you don't really understand them.
For instance, I don't really like vore all that much. However, I kinda get it. In a sense, vore can be an extreme dom/sub thing (to the point where being able to eat prey suggests total dominance over it) and it's a very primal thing. It makes sense. I do, however, like lactation, and I don't think everyone gets that (in my case, I can pinpoint it to an exact moment in my life... But that's a story for another day).
On the other hand, I don't really get nappy/diaper play. I don't hate it, it doesn't disgust me or anything; I just don't really get it. Like, sometimes it comes in part with themes of "infantilisation" and while that isn't my thing, I can understand it to a degree; but often it's not related to that at all. Then again, I also don't find anything sexual in scat, and while the two don't always go together, there's certainly a decent overlap in that Venn diagram, so maybe that's why.
Are there any fetishes or kinks that you just don't get?
I want to be extremely clear - this is not an opportunity to suggest which fetishes squick you out, or that you find problematic. I think we all have our kinks, and complaining at other people about theirs in a place like FurAffinity isn't just "pot calling kettle black" so much as "the pot, itself black, in a black-painted room, consisting solely of black objects, black walls, floor and ceiling, in a black-painted house in the centre of a black-painted neighbourhood during a solar eclipse".
Still, I'm curious if there are any fetishes you don't so much dislike; rather you don't really understand them.
For instance, I don't really like vore all that much. However, I kinda get it. In a sense, vore can be an extreme dom/sub thing (to the point where being able to eat prey suggests total dominance over it) and it's a very primal thing. It makes sense. I do, however, like lactation, and I don't think everyone gets that (in my case, I can pinpoint it to an exact moment in my life... But that's a story for another day).
On the other hand, I don't really get nappy/diaper play. I don't hate it, it doesn't disgust me or anything; I just don't really get it. Like, sometimes it comes in part with themes of "infantilisation" and while that isn't my thing, I can understand it to a degree; but often it's not related to that at all. Then again, I also don't find anything sexual in scat, and while the two don't always go together, there's certainly a decent overlap in that Venn diagram, so maybe that's why.
Are there any fetishes or kinks that you just don't get?
Dirty diaper wearing as well.
I mean there's the general sexual thing if just wanting to devour someone, in figurative sense. I just kinda see it as an extension of that feeling.
But yeah, diaper play I don't really "get".